Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family
history through old photographs.
This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt at first glance is amusing, but it depicts a condition that is anything but: hypertrichosis or “werewolf syndrome.” It’s a distinct look – you know it when you
see it. Another easily identifiable medical
condition is Down’s Syndrome. Sixteen
years ago my cousin gave birth to a boy with Down’s. Hers was not a high risk pregnancy; she ate
right and stayed healthy. Even the
doctor was surprised because my cousin had not exhibited any signs of a
problem.
But apparently the potential exists somewhere in our family’s
DNA. In 2012, I wrote about this mystery child:
That is definitely the typical appearance associated with Down's Syndrome. I do not know who he was or how he is related, but
I have some theories.
THEORY 1
My first thought was that he was a child of my
great-grandmother Mary Theresa Sheehan Killeen Walsh. Maybe he died young. No one ever spoke of him, and maybe that is
why we never knew of him. However, he was not in any census with the family, so
probably he was not hers.
THEORY 2
In St. Paul’s Catholic Church Cemetery in Portsmouth
where my Killeen and Walsh family are buried is a tombstone for a boy named
John Walsh, 1905-1919. Those dates seem
to fit the picture of this child. He is
buried with his parents, Thomas and Delia Walsh. Surely they must be related somehow to my
great grandfather John F. Walsh, but I have not been able to prove it.
THEORY 3
Then there’s the matter of this photo:
This picture was taken in 1932. The ears on this young man look much like the
ears on the boy from 1919. If it’s the
same person, then that negates Theory 2.
Right now my latest and greatest theory is that this
young man was one of the New York cousins.
My great grandmother’s sisters lived and died there, and judging by the collection
of photos, my grandaunts visited their aunts and cousins often.
The woman on the right in the 1932 photo might be this
woman from 1919:
Then when I compare the porches in these two photos, I’m
convinced the boy and the young woman are related to one another.
1919 |
She is the same woman in this photo with what might be a New York skyline in the faded background.
Admittedly, the skyline could be any skyline. But the architecture of the tall building,
the combination of brick and clapboard, does not resemble architecture in
Portsmouth, Virginia. It does, however, look
very New York-ish.
One more reason to think this family is part of the New
York cousins is my recent tenuous connection with the granddaughter of my great
grandmother’s sister. My newfound cousin
has shared photos on Facebook of a young woman – a daughter – who appears to
suffer some sort of physical and mental handicap. If only I could get this cousin to open up, I
might be able to check one more mystery off my list.
If only . . . .
For more stories of medical conditions and unflattering
photos, Sepia Saturday is the place to go.
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2015, Wendy Mathias. All rights
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If only, and it may take some time, but perhaps you'll get some answers. I wonder if much of the back story to this lad was kept private,a s it seems folks back then kept these kinds of things to themselves. Good luck on this mystery. I'm hoping that little boy lived beyond 1919.
ReplyDeleteYes, I know many families hid such children or institutionalized them. Sad really.
DeleteHope you solve your puzzle.
ReplyDeleteAccording to information on the Mayo Clinic website, only a small percentage of Down's syndrome is related to heredity.
That's encouraging to know!
DeleteInstitutionalization isn't always a bad choice. It depends on the place & the situation. A relative's child was born deaf & blind & the family did everything they could, but it was overwhelming & finally on the advice of a counselor, took her to a caring place where, after 3 months when they went to see the child, discovered her laughing & playing happily with other the other children there. They had never seen her smile before - let alone laugh & play! Relieved, they realized they had made the right choice &, of course, they saw her often &, no longer overwhelmed with the whole of it, learned to laugh & play with her. It was a win-win situation in that case.
ReplyDeleteOh I agree. I certainly didn't mean to sound judgmental. Thanks for sharing a personal story of the other view.
DeleteIt seems we all are thinking the same thing: the possibility of institutionalization. I was just reading, in my own family history, of a child who survived polio, only to be smitten with deafness--who was subsequently institutionalized by the family. If that were the case in your scenario, it would explain not being able to locate a possible entry for such a child in the family's census records.
ReplyDeleteWhen seeing the original prompt, using the photo about that rare disease, it first brought to mind the story of Beauty and the Beast...how difficult a burden that must have been for those who, in real life, had to bear that illness.
I can't even imagine how hard life must be for people with hypertrichosis. The first time I heard of it was when I read Patricia Cornwell's novel "Black Notice" in which the suspect in a string of murders was the son of a wealthy family who kept their son in hiding due to this condition.
DeleteA fascinating post. I hope your research bears fruit. So many families hid their'mistakes' away and often there was no record of their birth and death. In that respect times have changed for the better, I think.
ReplyDeleteI always hear about throw-away kids, but I've seen a number of children labeled as deaf or "dumb" in the census records. I wonder if they were kept in the home because the family couldn't afford to send them away or if they kept them out of love and parental obligation.
DeleteI love the photos... and your detective work! Hope you can continue to uncover more!
ReplyDeleteThanks -- I'll keep looking.
DeleteMy cousin's son is a very special young man (but with Down's). I think that this is the first time that I have seen Down Syndrome in earlier times. I thought maybe that babies may have been euthanaised but perhaps it was just that photo's weren't taken very often?
ReplyDeleteI very interesting and enjoyable post. I hope that you can solve the mystery one day!
Believe me, I was really surprised when I first saw the photos. In fact, I kept questioning myself about whether my assumptions could be right.
DeleteYou have done well coming this close to learning about our ancestor with Downs Syndrome!
ReplyDeleteI suppose you have asked our NYC cousins about this young guy?
Thanks.
DeleteAnd they never know anybody. But most recently they don't respond.
Good detective work here, and it's not finished by a long shot. Yes, in times when people cared for "special" relatives, many went through their lives behind closed doors.
ReplyDeleteNo, there's more to learn, that's for sure.
DeleteGreat sleuthing!
ReplyDeleteI have a distant ancestor with Down Syndrome; his smiling face appears in ALL the family portraits; he lived in Wisconsin, and lived to be nearly 25.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like the typical life span years ago.
DeleteMany doors that were once closed have now opened for those with special needs and their families. Education, understanding and society have come a long way in changing ideals and opportunities for all concerned. Your photos show, and your Theories give us a look at how one family handled their sons place in the family over time. For me, the photo of him sitting on the porch is a very significant as to how the person behind the camera felt about him.
ReplyDeleteSue at CollectInTexas Gal
What an interesting point. I imagine the cousins' side of the family in New York must have had even more pictures.
DeleteWhata lot of detective work has gone on here; I hope you get some answers. My experience of Downs children is that they are very sweet, kind and loving and should not be dismissed easily. I hope this litle boy had a happy life, even if it was a short one.
ReplyDeleteI hope it was a happy life too. The family seems to have dressed him rather well.
DeleteGosh this was a great post, Wendy. I agree with your match of faces, even with the hats there is strong similarity. Your story of a secret family child who is lost from memory, reminded me of a British film called "The Lost Prince" about the life of' Prince John, the youngest child of King George V and Queen Mary, who was autistic and an epileptic. He died in 1919 at age 13.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reinforcing my conclusions about the photos -- I hoped I wasn't just hoping beyond hope.
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