Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.
Five years ago and six years ago I wrote about my dad’s
scrapbook of photos he took as a 19-year-old in the Coast Guard. If you care to
read them, they are HERE and HERE. The stories were about how my sister and I
came to donate the scrapbook to the Custom House Maritime Museum in
Newburyport, Massachusetts and about the museum’s plan to enlarge some of my
dad’s photos for a special exhibit about the work of the Coast Guard in Thule,
Greenland following World War II.
This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt reminded me of this photo
Mary, Cam, Barry August 2016
at the Newburyport train station
and that I never really finished the story.
The reason? Because I was heartsick over what happened after I shipped the scrapbook to the Custom House Maritime Museum. In fact, I couldn’t even tell my sister about it until over a year later when we made the trip to see the exhibit.
Here’s the story
The week of March 20, 2015, I took Daddy’s scrapbook to my local UPS store in Chesapeake. They wrapped it securely for me. When the clerk asked about insurance, I was caught off guard and did not know how to respond. What is the value of a teenage boy’s scrapbook of amateur photos anyway? It can’t be replaced. Finally, I just picked a number: $100. Heck, I don’t know. The clerk said the package would arrive probably the next Tuesday.
Tuesday came and went without word from the museum letting me know they had the package. A week went by. Then another. I called the UPS store to ask about the status of the package. The clerk said the packages from her store go to a location in nearby Virginia Beach, a 35-minute trip any given day, and that she would call them to check.
The processing center in Virginia Beach had NO record of my package. UNBELIEVABLE.
The next step UPS took was to issue a special trace for the package. A trace could last up to two weeks. After that the package would be considered forever lost.
LOST
Yep, I got the call – no sign of the package. I sat and
cried. I was sad for my dad’s scrapbook, and I was mad that I had thought UPS
would be a safer carrier than the regular post office. All I could offer the
museum then were copies of the photos I had saved on my computer. My hope was
that they could be enlarged enough for the kind of exhibit the director and
curator had envisioned.
Thank goodness for that measly $100 insurance because a few weeks later I received the check.
The money was nothing to me. I wrote a check for $100 as a donation to the Custom House Maritime Museum and put it in the mail.
The very next day I received a phone call.
“Hello, Mrs. Mathias. This is Michael Mroz, director of
the Custom House Maritime Museum. I want you to know I am holding your father’s
beautiful scrapbook right now.”
What???
I am pretty sure I was screaming in the poor man’s ear.
How the scrapbook was lost yet managed to show up in the right place after over a month is still a mystery, a miracle, a gift.
Boston and Newburyport Trip
In August 2016, the exhibit called “Frozen in Time” opened at the Custom House Maritime Museum and ran through December. Of course, we had to see it. My sister and I along with our husbands flew to Boston for a long weekend.
The ticket for the exhibit used one of Daddy's photos
Promotional materials |
Newburyport is the last stop on the commuter train, about an hour’s ride from Boston. Had we understood how to read the schedule, we would have gotten to Newburyport sooner, but it was still a wonderful day. The director met us at the station and drove us to the museum.
Barry, Wendy, Cam, Mary
("buoys and girls" ha ha)
in front of the Custom House
Icebergs and mountains |
Inuit families |
Cam, Barry, Mary Behind them are photos of men at work and at play. Daddy is in the 4th photo top row in white with his thumb in his pocket. |
Work on the ship |
A gallery that focuses on the history of the Coast Guard holds a model of my dad’s ship, The Eastwind. It was fun to see in the model the steps my dad descended in this photo:
Wendy and Mary with 2 photos of our dad |
Model of the Eastwind |
Climb aboard the Sepia Saturday train – no insurance needed.
Wendy
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Such a great story...lost and found again! You wrote it very well, with all the suspense, tears and then the joyful photos of the museum's displays. I am even further away from it, but have lots of roots in New England. Maybe when driving around the country is allowed again, I may go to Newburyport. My hubby was in the Coast Guard too, though we divorced later. I know your exhibit might not be on display any more, but it sure contributed well to that museum's collections!
ReplyDeleteWhat a fun trip we had! Daddy would have been totally shocked. I love those pictures. I am thankful you came up with the idea to donate Daddy’s book. You da best!
ReplyDeleteI am so happy that the scrapbook was safely delivered!! I was so sad as I read and thought that it was lost forever. I'm so glad that you got to go see this wonderful exhibit.
ReplyDeleteOh Wendy. Thanks for providing links to previous blog posts. I had no idea. How wonderful to see the photos enlarged. They look truly beautiful. Thule is so very far away. What an amazing experience for a 19 year old. And yes, he had a great eye for the camera.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fabulous story. I can just imagine how you felt when you thought the album was lost. Such old family albums are amongst my most treasured possessions.
ReplyDeleteA wonderful way to preserve you Dad's scrapbook by donating it to a museum that care, and then to see the display. His story will be accessible to other. Thaks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteWow, Wendy. Thank the genealogy gods that your Dad's scrapbook didn't disappear forever! I enjoyed going back to read the related posts and knowing that your family got to go see the exhibit.
ReplyDeleteA great story with, thank goodness, a happy ending! They were wonderful photographs and what a tribute to have them enlarged and on display like that. It was all meant to be. It's just too bad you had to have a sad scare along the way.
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ReplyDeleteA terrific story, Wendy. I remembered your first story and thought then that they would look better enlarged on a wall. I've had two issues with UPS in the last two weeks, so I can relate to the anxiety of lost and, in my case, not found. It was quite an honor to see your dad's album displayed in a place that will preserve it.
ReplyDeleteOh my, what a story! I have so many scrapbooks to donate and I've always thought that when it's time, I'll make the drive (about 1000 miles) and hand deliver them. After your story, I'm even more sure that's what I'll do. So, so glad they were found!
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