is for Arlee as in “Arlee Bird,” founder of
the A to Z April Challenge. Arlee is my
creative hero, the godfather of my blog.
Before I stumbled into last year’s A to Z April Challenge, I had no real
vision about what to do with my research on the Jollett family. A to Z rescued me from the dry and dusty deeds
and wills, pointing me in the direction of story-telling. Thank-you, Lee. I appreciate all the encouragement you have
given me.
My A to Z challenge this time will focus on the women in my
database, particularly those with unusual names, some more unusual than others. First up is Alda Beatrice Clift, my first
cousin twice removed.
When Alda was just 8 years old, she testified in her
parents’ divorce trial. And what a story
she had to tell:
Deposition on file with Page County Chancery Causes online at Library of Virginia |
Lawyer: Just tell me what happened when your father came
to the house.
Alda: When he come
in, Mama said she was not expecting him home, and he said I come home when you
are not expecting me. Mama asked him if
he wanted his supper and he said yesem, and he said what do you have for meals,
and Mama said 25 cents, and he gave her 25 cents and she laid it up on the shelf. Mama cooked his supper and he set down and he
eat and he pulled out a pass out of his pocket and said Sallie I got a pass for
Luray. I am going to Luray and get me a
divorce, and Mama went into the kitchen to wash the dishes and he got up and
came out there, and Mama came back in the dining room and Papa pulled out his
gun and held it up that away, and said I am going to kill you, and then me and
Mama commenced to scream and I said Papa put your gun back in your pocket and
then me and Mama went out doors, and he followed us out and when we got out to
the gate he got his gun out again and then he said I dare you to come back in
here, I will shoot your G__ D__ brains out; you or any other man. Me and Mama went on down street and then we
went hunting for Mr. Whiteside, and Eddie Bricker come to me and Mama first,
and we found Mr. Whiteside and he went on up home.
Alda Beatrice Clift 1905 - 1982 It looks like she has only one arm, but it's behind her back. |
Alda: Down to Aunt Vick’s (meaning Mrs. Decatur Breeden)
Lawyer: Do you
want to stay with your mother or would you rather go live with your father?
Alda: I want to
stay with my Mama.
Lawyer: Why would
you not want to live with your father?
Alda: Because he
is too mean to me.
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Such a terrible event for little Alda to experience.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it though! And only 8 years old.
DeleteOh what a trauma for Alda - I love her name. Glad you explained about her arm in the photo!
ReplyDeleteYeah, that photo is rather weird.
DeleteWonderful and terrible at the same time. How terrible that Alda had to experience that, but how wonderful for your family history research.
ReplyDeleteThanks Sharon. The whole divorce file is like something out of the movies.
DeleteWhat a wealth of information you have in your ancestors paper trails and photos. You've given those dry and dusty deeds, wills and now depositions, a whole new meaning through the stories you tell and share here on Jollett Etc.
ReplyDeleteAlda's tramatic story is a great start for the AtoZ Challenge.
I'm so glad I found you last year for AtoZ 2012 and the 1940 Community Census Project. You and Arlee are both inspiring and encouraging. Thank-you!
Hi Sue -- yes, it's our "anniversary," so to speak. Your kind words are putting the pressure on me now to be deserving.
DeleteAfter Alda's deposition I bet the request for divorce was granted... Great start, Wendy!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Peter. There were quite a few testimonies that certainly would have convinced the judge, but this one is the most heart-wrenching.
DeleteThat broke my heart. What a traumatic event for a child.
ReplyDeleteHappy A to Z, Wendy. ☺
If Alda was shy or hesitant, it doesn't sound like it.
DeleteHappy A to Z backatcha. (It's our "anniversary" -- A to Z 2012 introduced me to the Daily Dose, a blog that I always look forward to for its upbeat outlook and humor.)
Wow, Wenday ... your "A" started out with a bang. (Sorry, I couldn't help it.) Poor Alda; I am glad that they got out of there safe.
ReplyDeleteKathy M.
That's why I love you Kathy -- we can be "sick" sometimes! LOL
Delete8 years old? That is entirely too young to have to go through something like that - she did a great job with the testimony.
ReplyDeleteI might have to try this challenge - looks fun!
Jump in -- I joined last year on day 3 and loved every minute. I found several blogs that I still follow.
DeleteFascinating stuff. You touched on two things I love. Court transcripts and stories from the early 1900. Look forward to reading more.
ReplyDeleteThanks. I hope you'll come back.
DeleteI find social history really interesting. How traumatic for a child.
ReplyDeleteI agree it had to be traumatic, although Alda sounds as if she was describing just another day in the life ....
DeleteGood theme - this transcript was interesting - I love historical things like this and I'm looking forward to reading many more over the month
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I enjoy a juicy little story myself. This one definitely tops them all.
DeleteWhat a devastating experience for a young child to have to go through. Incredible. But you know that stuff does happen...sometimes it seems so sanitized when we read about it in an archived document. Wonder what the impact was on the rest of her life...
ReplyDeleteThe few things I know about Alda make it seem as if there were no significant negative effects. But, of course, who can tell what sorrows are masked by a bright smile in a photo? I do know that she and one of her brothers cut off all ties with their father, but one brother maintained a relationship with him.
DeleteWow! I am so glad I met you! What an extraordinary relative, and you are just the person who was destined to tell the story of your family. I am entranced! Thank you! You are super!
ReplyDeletejean yates!
Jean, you are too kind. Thanks for stopping by. I love the title of your blog, by the way.
DeleteWow! What a piece of history! I love the geneology blogs and read quite a few last year. I hope to visit you again, especially if you'll be having bio stories. Awesome and great job!
ReplyDeleteThanks Claire.
DeleteSo sad for her to have to go through this. But fascinating for you to learn about.
ReplyDeleteEven the sad chapters help paint a full picture.
DeleteThat's quite a story. Abuse was so easily accepted back then...
ReplyDeleteOh yes. Man ruled the roost and if someone needed to be taught a lesson....
DeleteI can't believe the lawyer had to actually ask why she didn't want to live with her father! Fascinating piece!
ReplyDeleteI know - crazy!
DeleteVioletta always loved Alda. Good for Alda to be able to withstand the questioning.
ReplyDeleteI like your theme this year. And thank you for the kind words.
ReplyDeleteHave a great April Challenge!
Lee
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