Wednesday, January 22, 2020

52 Ancestors - CLOSE TO HOME: Camp Sherwood Forest


As a child in the 1960s, I loved being a Girl Scout. Every week I was proud to put on that uniform and walk down Gillis Road to the little green Scout building on Afton Parkway.
 
The Woman's Club building AND Scout cabin
are now gone - made way for progress and new houses
One of the best parts of Girl Scouts was going to summer day camp. I used to have to bug my mother to get me registered. Invariably on the first day of camp when we gathered at the flag pole for our day troop assignments, I was always one of maybe three girls whose names were not called (I guess their mothers were procrastinators, too), so we had to be assigned after all the others skipped happily off to their campsites. After the initial embarrassment of having to find my group, I was the perfect happy camper. 

Day camp was like a different world for me. I was doing things my parents didn’t do with me. I was learning things most of my friends were not learning. It was adventure. It was independence.

Here is what I liked about summer camp:
  • Preparing for camp and making my own sit-upon by weaving folded sheets of newspaper into a not-so-comfy square mat covered in oil cloth 
    NOT mine - These are my daughters' sit-upons
    from when they were in Girl Scouts
  • Taking part in the flag ceremony and it didn’t matter whether I got to raise and lower the flag or serve as an honor guard 
  • Reading the daily duty list to see whether my group was in charge of cleaning latrines, clearing weeds from the walk paths using a little hatchet (yes!  A hatchet!), setting up for lunch, or cooking
  • Hearing the bell ring when the milk truck arrived delivering little cartons of milk to all the campers
  • Doing wood crafts and art projects around a big picnic table with other campers
  • Learning to identify trees – I still amaze people with my ability to tell the difference between red and white oaks, and to know a Sassafras tree by its three different-shaped leaves
  • Cooking on an open fire once a week – usually Hunter’s Stew
  • Making our own stove out of a #10 can and a tuna can with rolled corrugated paper and paraffin wax, called a Buddy Burner 
  • Learning First Aid, in particular how to make a tourniquet and a sling for a broken arm
  • Learning to load a bow and shoot an arrow
  • Singing Taps in a Friendship Circle at the end of the day before boarding the bus to go home

Part of the fun was just getting there. Brownies and Girl Scouts ages 6-12 rode together on a bus. An older Girl Scout was in charge and she always led us in fun songs like “John Jacob Jingleheimer Schmidt,” “The Bear Went Over the Mountain,” and “Make New Friends.”  

We sang lots of songs because the ride to camp was a long one. We wound through my neighborhood Cradock, and then out to other parts of Portsmouth – West Cradock, Highland Biltmore, Simonsdale, Park Manor, and other places I have since forgotten. At the time, I probably had no clue what the neighborhoods were. They just seemed so far away. It must have taken well over an hour to pick up everyone and then head out across the Hodges Ferry Bridge.

The former Hodges Ferry Bridge
from bridgehunter.com
The Hodges Ferry Bridge was definitely at the edge of the world for me. My family never had a need to go that way. There was nothing but farm land, woods, and wide-open fields.

And Camp Sherwood Forest.

Far from home in the middle of nowhere. 

Or so I thought.

It was my last day of camp EVER because I was aging out of day camp opportunities unless I wanted to be the older girl monitoring young campers on the bus. Parents were invited to a program where the day campers displayed their crafts, performed dances, sang camp songs, and led the singing of Taps in the closing ceremony. Instead of riding the bus home, I hopped into the car with my parents.

I was surprised when my dad turned left out of the long gravel path instead of right as the bus driver always did. In a few minutes time, we were on High Street in Portsmouth. There was Churchland High School! There was the Churchland Bridge! All very familiar and just minutes from my home. Camp Sherwood Forest was NOT in the middle of nowhere. Indeed, it was much closer to home than I thought if you go THIS way instead of THAT way.

What a disappointment. It was akin to learning the truth about the Tooth Fairy and Easter Bunny.

Flash forward 50 years. Where I live today is part of the former farm land, woods, and wide-open fields that once defined “the edge of the world” beyond Hodges Ferry Bridge.
Just a small part of Western Branch community in Chesapeake, VA
My house is marked by the blue circle, upper far right.
Camp Sherwood Forest WAS in the upper left part of the picture. 
Neighborhoods, shopping centers, businesses, gas stations, schools, churches, and a YMCA now fill the area that once was the middle of nowhere. In fact, I can actually walk to the neighborhood where I learned to handle a bow and arrow. The tell-tale power lines are still there just as they were those summers so many years ago.



The archery range was
where the power lines
stood even then.












Of course, now I’m wondering whose house was built over the latrines at Camp Sherwood Forest.

Amy Johnson Crow continues to challenge genealogy bloggers and non-bloggers alike to think about our ancestors and share a story or photo about them. The challenge is “52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.”

Wendy
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Saturday, January 18, 2020

Sepia Saturday: I Swanny


Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.


My first thought when I saw this week’s Sepia Saturday prompt was, “Well, I swanny.” That is an expression I have heard my entire life. Is it just a Southern “thang”? Do people in other regions of the United States say it too?

Do people in Boston say “I swanny”? I can’t imagine. However, when in Boston, one must take a ride on the Swan Boats. It’s an iconic thing, a must do, like kissing the Blarney Stone when in Ireland. 
Wendy and Swan Boats 2007 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Copied from my Boston Vacation scrapbook
Me 2007 at the Swan Boats
A cruise around the pond in the Public Garden was the first stop on a mother-daughter trip in 2007 with my younger daughter Zoe. 
View from our seat on the Swan Boat
The boats are a pontoon boat powered like a bicycle just as they were when first introduced in 1877. The driver sits on a paddlebox hidden by a fiberglass swan.

Yes, the Swan Boat ride is a bit corny, but it is a peaceful and pleasant way to spend 15-minutes.
 
Photo courtesy wikimedia commons
On our Rhine River cruise last May, we saw plenty of swans. As we headed into the locks, the swans wisely got out of our way. 
Swans on the Rhine 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

The ducks? Not so much. They often were stuck in the locks with a couple of river boats and barges. That’s one way to migrate.
Ducks in a lock on the Rhine 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Ducks in a lock on the Rhine 2019
On a post-trip to Lucerne, we knew right away that the city loves swans. Near our hotel, the floral centerpiece of the median is a swan.
Median along Schweizerhofquai, Lucerne
 The REAL ones in Lake Lucerne were enchanting too.
Swans on Lake Lucerne 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Swan on Lake Lucerne 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Please visit the other bloggers at Sepia Saturday. How they find so many wonderful old photos and delightful stories is beyond me. I swanny!

Wendy
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Wednesday, January 15, 2020

52 Ancestors - LONG LINE: The Normal Line

Violetta Davis 1923 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Violetta Davis outside her dorm 1923
Casual Photo for the yearbook

The year was 1923. My grand-aunt Violetta Davis (later Ryan) was graduating from the Harrisonburg Normal School (now James Madison University – Go Dukes!). The traditions surrounding commencement had been in place for over ten years. Five days of activities were planned. The entire student body stayed to share in the excitement of their friends’ achievements and to dream of the day when it would be their turn to join the “Normal Line.”

What a cast!



On Friday, June 1, 1923, the Senior class presented “The Lamp and the Bell” in the outdoor theater. It was a poetic drama by Edna St. Vincent Milay based on the fairy tale “Snow White and Rose Red.” Milay wrote it specifically as an outdoor production with a large cast, colorful medieval period costumes and a great deal of spectacle.

On Saturday night, June 2, the Seniors were entertained with music by the music students and dramatic readings by students in the expression class. 










Normal Line 1923 leaving Spotswood Hall https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
The Normal Line
Walking from Spotswood Hall to the gates at South Main Street
Sunday was Baccalaureate in the morning and Vesper Service in the evening. For many years Baccalaureate rotated among the various churches in Harrisonburg. As long as the service was downtown, the people of Harrisonburg showed up to watch the procession of faculty in academic gowns and seniors in their white dresses as they walked in a line from campus to the church. It came to be known as “the Normal Line.” The Normal Line stretched for blocks. It must have been an impressive sight.

Normal Line processing down South Main St 1923 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
The Normal Line on South Main Street Harrisonburg, VA
You can see people in the yard watching the parade. 
Since the students were on display, the faculty and administration required a uniform look. The girls wore white dresses with white stockings, white shoes, and white hats. Sleeves had to be at least half way to the elbow and the hem had to be fourteen inches from the floor. The rules were nothing to mess with. Graduates had to pass inspection conducted by a committee of students and chaperone of each dorm. For Violetta, inspection day in Spotswood Hall was April 30, 1923. 

The Vesper Services were held Sunday evening in the amphitheater, concluding with a candlelight service in which the graduating class relinquished their seniority to the Juniors. The ceremony was usually accompanied by a great deal of sadness and tears.

On Monday was the annual tennis tournament between the two clubs on campus, the Racquet and Pinquet clubs. Homecoming for the alumnae was always during commencement week, and in 1923 the Alumnae held their banquet on Monday evening, June 4.
 
JMU 1923 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Gates at South Main Street
Spotswood Hall on the left
Harrison Hall second from the right
On Tuesday evening, June 5, 1923, Commencement was held in the Blue Stone Dining Hall in Harrison. Finally, Violetta and the other Seniors had triumphed in their studies. They crossed the finish line.

 

Amy Johnson Crow continues to challenge genealogy bloggers and non-bloggers alike to think about our ancestors and share a story or photo about them. The challenge is “52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.

Wendy
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Saturday, January 11, 2020

Sepia Saturday: The Reunion That Started It All

Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.



This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt is the ever-popular GROUP PHOTO. The oldest such photo in my collection is from 1914. The occasion was the first Jollett Reunion. Likely it was held at the home of my 2X great-grandfather James Franklin Jollett in Harriston, Augusta County, Virginia.

Jollett Reunion 1914 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

It was not a good photo. Fortunately, some were better than others enabling me to identify a few of the people. Since my grandaunts Violetta and Velma were there, I can assume my grandfather was likewise, but I do not see him.
 
Jollett Reunion 1914 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Reunion 1914
It is clear from the pictures taken over the years that the group photo was an important tradition.

The WHOLE Group
Jollett Reunion 1921 or 23 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
1921 or 1923
Just the “Children”
Jollett Reunion 1914 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
1914
Children of James Franklin Jollett
Standing: Burton Lewis, Victoria, Sallie, Mary Frances (my great-grandmother),
Leanna, Laura, Emma
Seated: Eliza Jane (James Franklin's 2nd wife), James Franklin, Ulysses
Jollett Reunion 1921 or 23 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
1921 or 1923
Standing: Ulysses, Laura, Leanna, Mary Frances, Sallie, Victoria
Seated: Emma, James Franklin and wife Eliza Jane
The “Children” and Spouses
Jollett Reunion 1919 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
1919
Standing: Decatur Breeden and Victoria, Jack Coleman and Emma,
Sallie Clift, Laura Sullivan, James Franklin, Mary Frances Davis,
Eliza Jane, Walter Davis
Seated: Will Sullivan, Ulysses and wife Sadie
Jollett Reunion 1934 at the latest https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
1934 at the latest
Standing: James Knight, Sallie Clift, Leanna Knight, Walter and
Mary Frances Davis, Decatur and Victoria Breeden,
Laura and Will Sullivan
Seated: Jack and Emma Coleman
4 Generations
Jollett Reunion 1925 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
1925
My grandfather Orvin Davis
with his son, mother, grandfather
Orvin Jr., Mary Frances, James Franklin Jollett
The Jollett tradition lives on in my family today but not at a reunion. We take a group photo every Christmas Eve. Each one is now a record of family coming and going, weight gain and loss, and, of course, happy times.

Our Christmas Eve parties are not like most people’s holiday gatherings. We have a theme each year. Sometimes the theme suggests a specific way to dress. Although I never intended for the party to become a costume event, sometimes we can’t help ourselves. Take a look:
 
2010 - Black & White Party
2012 - Redneck Shindig
We were wearing plastic "Bubba teeth."
We laughed so much that it was hard to get a picture.
2015 - Christmas in Whoville
2016 - Christmas PJs
2018 - Groovy Christmas
2019 - Putting on the Ritz
(the girls did better than the guys)
Please join the group at Sepia Saturday. There is always room for one more.

Wendy
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Wednesday, January 8, 2020

52 Ancestors - FAVORITE PHOTO: Helen and the Byrnes Cousins


Asking me to choose a favorite photo is like asking me to pick a favorite child. I will show you one today, but tomorrow that may change. Right now my favorite photo is this one of my grandaunt Helen Killeen Parker.
Helen Killeen Parker https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Aunt Helen
she captioned this "The Vamp"
I knew her only in her older years, so this photo of her in a 1920s swim dress with a hand-crank gramophone in the great outdoors has made me see her in a different light. But the real reason I love the photo is that I love HER and the legacy she left behind in the form of scrapbooks and loose photos. They make me want to know more about my dad’s side of the family, but Helen did not make it easy. Very few of Helen’s photos are labeled, so it has been a slow process eking out the small details to help me formulate a story of the Sheehan sisters who emigrated from Ireland to New York in the 1880s. For the most part, the family is still a mystery.

LOOKING BACK TO WEEK 2 OF 2019
Last year at this time when the 52 Ancestors theme was “Challenge,” I wrote about the challenge of finding 2 unnamed nephews mentioned in the obituary of Sr Vincent Carmel, aka Sadie Byrnes, Helen’s cousin and daughter of Elizabeth Sheehan Byrnes, my great-grandmother’s sister. Here I am a year later, writing about the same thing, but this year the story has a different ending.

All I knew last year was this:  when Sadie died in 1973, she was survived by 2 nieces and 2 nephews. I knew the girls were Madeline and Patricia, daughters of Sadie’s brother John. John died young in 1925, and his widow remarried. I wondered if she had children with her new husband Joseph P. Maloney or if one of Sadie’s other brothers had children.

DNA COMES CALLING
A short couple of weeks ago, a man (I’ll call him “K”) whose DNA matched with my dad’s contacted me to figure out how we are related. The surnames in “K’s” database did not resemble mine at all. However, we both had Irish immigrant ancestors in New York, so I suspected there was a good chance that we might find a connection collaterally further up the chain. I gave him names:
  • Johanna Sheehan and Patrick Hederman
  • Margaret Sheehan and John Nagle
  • Elizabeth Sheehan and Patrick Byrnes  (parents of John, Sadie, Robert, and others)
  • Delia Sheehan and William Christian 

Mine was not “K’s” only match nor only contact. He found John Byrnes’ granddaughter (I’ll call her “M”) and pointed her to my blog. She wrote to thank me for sharing this photo of her grandfather.
 
John Byrnes https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Labeled "Jack" - a nickname for John
John Byrnes 1919
THOSE MYSTERY NEPHEWS
“M” also helped solve the mystery of the unnamed nephews. Well, part of it anyway. John Byrnes’ widow Madeline and her second husband Joseph P. Maloney had two sons: Joseph Jr and Robert. While that seemed to fit the facts of Sadie Byrnes’ obituary, Robert had been killed during the Korean War so would not have been one of the surviving nephews. Joseph Jr is still living, making him one of the two. But who was the other one? “M” had no suggestions because her family did not keep up with the other Byrnes brothers.

THE PLOT THICKENS AND SO DOES THE MYSTERY
Robert Byrnes 1919 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
labeled "Cousin Bob"
Robert Byrnes 1919
“K” was searching for the REAL father of a man with whom he matched DNA. In so doing, he found brother Robert Byrnes whose common name and lack of other details had caused confusion in my tree for a while. It turns out that Robert had a wife, Mary Dempsey, and a son and daughter. Of course, that just threw off Sadie’s survivor count which had said 2 nieces and 2 nephews. Unless Robert’s daughter died before 1973, there were 3 nieces and 2 nephews.

But not so fast! “K” found more. It seems ol’ Robert was a bit of a rascal. He fathered a child with wife Mary’s sister Helen who was also married at the time. And there it is – the point where Sheehan-Byrnes-Dempsey DNA reared its Irish head. “K” found the answer to his question.

Robert was not finished though. He fathered children with another woman whom he finally married in 1963 just one month before his own death.

How did the obituary get it so wrong? Sadie’s close family were the children and grandchildren of her brother John. They were not close with the other Byrnes brothers and therefore likely had no knowledge of Robert’s life.

While my favorite photo has nothing to do with this story, Helen is the one who made these discoveries possible.

Amy Johnson Crow continues to challenge genealogy bloggers and non-bloggers alike to think about our ancestors and share a story or photo about them. The challenge is “52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.” 
Wendy
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Saturday, January 4, 2020

Sepia Saturday: BFF


Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.

The minute I saw this week’s Sepia Saturday photo prompt, I thought of this photo:
 
Kathleen Sigler Rinney https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Kathleen Sigler Rinney
This is Kathleen Sigler Rinney, my maternal grandmother’s best friend when they were girls growing up in the Shenandoah Valley. It is a bit of a puzzle as to how Grandma and Kathleen were childhood friends. Kathleen was the daughter of Chester and Mary Alice Sigler of Luray, quite a few miles from Shenandoah. It would have been inconvenient for her to attend school with my grandmother.

Perhaps Kathleen spent time with her grandparents or other relatives who lived closer to Shenandoah. If so, that might be where Grandma saw Kathleen’s grandmother. The story my grandmother always used to tell was that Kathleen’s grandmother was Black; she always wore a large bonnet, probably hiding her hair. The family apparently passed for White. That would explain why I cannot find any evidence of a Black, “Colored,” or Mulatto grandparent anywhere in Kathleen’s family tree. If any of the Siglers were actually NOT White, they did not claim it in a census.

Kathleen’s father was a grocery salesman, so it’s possible he sold to my grandparents who ran a store on Sixth Street in Shenandoah. But would Kathleen have been her father’s sidekick on those sales runs? I rather doubt it.

At any rate, they were friends. When Kathleen married Edward Aulis Rinney in 1928, she moved to Washington D.C. Edward was a native of Finland but had been in the United States since 1914. Like their father, Edward and his brothers were all carpenters. I wonder if they were “finish carpenters” or just “Finnish carpenters.” Yes, folks, I’m here through the weekend. 

About 1934, Edward and Kathleen moved to Takoma Park, Maryland. For a time Kathleen was a clerk for a department store. According to city directories, she was an authorizer for Woodward & Lothrop, a chain headquartered in Washington D.C. Later she became a supervisor at the store. What she authorized and whom she supervised, I have no idea. But she formed a tight circle of friends among her coworkers.
 
Kathleen is 4th one in
At some point Kathleen and Edward returned to Luray, maybe in their retirement years. They are buried in the Evergreen Memorial Gardens in Luray, Virginia.
 
on Findagrave
photo courtesy JAC
Keep smiling and visit my friends at Sepia Saturday.

Wendy
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Wednesday, January 1, 2020

52 Ancestors - FRESH START: The American Dream

“Land of milk and honey” – that’s how millions of Europeans and Asians viewed America in the 1880s when my own Irish ancestors left their home in Croom, Limerick to start a new life in New York City. Their reasons for immigrating have been lost to time, but likely the Sheehan sisters and brother experienced conditions much like other immigrants had.

ECONOMIC REASONS
Irish tenant farmers being evicted from their home
Wikimedia Commons - in public domain
The great potato famine in Ireland predates my Irish immigrants by 40 years, but a second famine swept through Ireland in the 1870s. Many tenant farmers never fully recovered and were unable to pay their debts. Some were forced from their homes by merciless landlords, many absentee at that, who raised their rents without regard for their tenants’ conditions or ability to pay.

I have been unable to pin down my 2X great-grandfather Daniel Sheehan, but I suspect he was among the tenant farmers struggling to keep his head above water. A couple records in an Irish database available through Find My Past show a Daniel Sheehan from Castletown, Croom, Limerick in and out of jail, perhaps from debt, perhaps from drunkenness. Right name – right place but his was a common name, so I cannot be certain of the facts surrounding his life.

RELIGIOUS PERSECUTION
Russian Jews and German Lutherans certainly had reason to flee their countries due to government-sanctioned persecution. Similarly, Catholics in Ireland were subject to British law that for years deprived them of the right to own land, vote, and speak their own language. Whether this was a factor driving the Sheehans to America, I cannot say.

TRAVEL
If immigrants were escaping poverty, they surely did not travel in high style. Steerage would have been their temporary home on a steamship. For a voyage of maybe two weeks, they shared a toilet with 45 people, slept on straw-filled mattresses, and endured cramped quarters with no sunlight or ventilation. A ticket for the privilege might have cost them a year’s salary or even a life savings.
Steerage class
Wikimedia Commons - public domain
SERIAL IMMIGRATION
I do not know exactly WHY my ancestors came to America, but I do know that somehow Daniel and Bridget Sheehan managed to save enough money to offer a fresh start to one child every couple of years. (I am assuming they were responsible – I really have no idea if they were even still living at the time.)
  • Johanna immigrated in 1883 when she was about 22 years old.
  • John immigrated PROBABLY about 1884 or 85 at age 21. His whereabouts are still eluding me.
  • Mary Theresa (my great-grandmother) arrived in 1886 at age 17.
  • Elizabeth came in 1888 at age 17.
  • Margaret immigrated sometime between 1893 and 1896 depending on which record you believe. She would have been 20 or older.
  • Finally, the baby Delia arrived in 1897 at age 18. 

A FRESH START
Family historians always bemoan the loss of the 1890 Federal Census. Fortunately, the state of New York conducted a State Census in 1892. In it, I found my great-grandmother living in Brooklyn earning a living as a cook prior to her marriage in 1893 to John Joseph Killeen, himself an immigrant.

Unfortunately, Elizabeth seems to have missed that census. I can’t find her although she should have been in it. Johanna was already married. Since she arrived between censuses, I do not know what she did to make her way in the two years between immigration and marriage.

Margaret and Delia arrived well after the 1892 census. I could not find Margaret in the 1900 census, unless her date of birth was reported incorrectly. There was a Margaret Sheehan working as a maid for a family in Manhattan. Another Margaret Sheehan worked as a waitress. Neither the dates of birth nor immigration match those of MY Margaret Sheehan.

When Delia came to New York, she lived with John and Delia Hogan, identified in the 1900 census as her uncle and aunt. I have yet to figure out how that is possible. Perhaps claiming Delia as a niece was easier than explaining the real relationship. She appeared to have no job in 1900, but she showed up in 1905 as a laundress.

LINGERING QUESTIONS
Yes, lingering. I want to know MORE about the Sheehans.
  • Except for Johanna and John, the girls were just kids when they boarded that steamship, although I suppose that at the time they were considered full-blown adults. The Sheehans did not immigrate together, but did they travel in the company of cousins or family friends?
  • Had they arranged for a place to stay ahead of time? Was there family waiting for them like the Hogans who took Delia in?
  • Why did brother Denis stay in Ireland?   

Despite the lingering questions, it is a relief to know that all the Sheehan sisters found work and husbands as well as a good life in America.


Wendy
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