“We need to get together more often and not at a
funeral.” How many times have you and a cousin said that? Funerals are much
like a family reunion. You can learn a lot about a family just by looking at
who showed up. Using my grandparents’ guest books and sympathy cards, I’ll be
exploring “Who came to the funeral?”
is for Rev. Robert Luverne Nair. Of all the signatures
in my grandparents’ funeral Guest Registers, this one made my jaw drop and my
eyes pop out of my head. The good reverend is actually family, but he’s so
distant that I must wonder if my grandfather and his sisters actually knew
Robert Nair as a cousin or if it was just coincidence that he was somehow a
friend of the family. I know he did not deliver the eulogy, but possibly he
served in some way.
But how he was family is interesting to me. Robert was
the great-grandson of Margaret Jollett Nair, half-sister of my 2X great-grandfather
James Franklin Jollett (making Robert my half third cousin once removed). In
the mid-1860s Margaret and her husband Peter Nair and family left Page County
for Highland County and then Rockingham County. They raised 14 children.
Their son Robert Franklin and his wife Susannah Hess
lived in Rockingham County. They along with several children are buried in the
Linville Creek Church of the Brethren Cemetery. However, their son Benjamin
Harrison Nair followed two older brothers to Iowa. Why they moved is not known.
Nevertheless, by 1910 Ben had met and married his wife
Edith Faye Thomas. They raised five children, including Robert, in Greene
County, Iowa. Whether they ever returned to Virginia for one of those Jollett
Reunions I always heard about is the question. Somehow I doubt it. According to
an account written by a Nair descendant, Margaret Jollett Nair never saw her
family again once they left. If SHE did not return, I find it difficult to
believe her children or grandchildren would have made the trip.
I have found little else about Robert beyond the 1940
census. Apparently he finished school and must have received some education to
become a minister in the United Brethren Church. His obituary provides this
information about his career:
During his 45 years as an active pastor, Nair often
served multi-church charges. Beginning in 1951, he served Evangelical United
Brethren churches in the Cumberland area, including Antioch, Calvary-Bethel,
Mt. Clinton and Hardy charges. In 1960 he was appointed to Shenandoah Station,
and after the Methodist-EUB merger to Potomac Park-Ridgely in 1969. He served
Mt. Airy-Poplar Springs Charge from 1975-1979 when he moved to Dawson. In 1985 he
moved to Emmanuel in Cumberland, then to Emmanuel-Bethel in 1992, from which he
retired in 1995.
There it is! If “Shenandoah
Station” was the wording the Brethren church used to mean “charge” or “district,”
two terms I’m more familiar with, then Robert may indeed have been pastor at
the EUB Church in Shenandoah, the church where my grandparents once were
members.
I have met so many fifth cousins that I’ve concluded it’s
possible and probable to be pals with people you don’t know are cousins. Maybe
that’s how it was with Robert Nair.
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| Rev. Robert Nair 1968 photo courtesy Jane Rosson |
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