During the month of March, I will be shining the light on
my Irish roots.
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Mary Theresa Sheehan 1869-1939 |
I cannot imagine what it was like for a woman to be
widowed twice before the age of 50. And with 8 children. That was the life my
great-grandmother Mary Theresa Sheehan faced.
At the age of 17, Mary Theresa emigrated by herself from County
Limerick, Ireland in 1886 to New York City. In the 1892 New York State census,
she reported living on Clinton Avenue in Brooklyn earning a living as a cook.
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John Joseph Killeen 1866 - 1905 |
Somewhere, somehow, she met John Joseph Killeen, also an
Irishman who had arrived from County Limerick in 1886. In the 1892 census, he
was working as a porter.
The 1900 census indicates that John Joseph and Mary
Theresa had been married 7 years. They were living in an apartment on 3rd
Avenue in the Bronx. John worked as a railroad guard while Mary Theresa was at
home caring for three children: Lillie age 6, Matthew age 5, and Mary (better
known to our family as Mae) age 1. Sadly, the Killeens reported that there had
been 4 children with just the 3 living.
When New York conducted its State census in June 1905, 36-year-old
Mary Theresa had been a widow for 2 months with 5 children to take care of: Elizabeth
(Lillie) age 11, Matthew 10, Mae 6, Margaret 4, and Helen 2.
At the encouragement of her sister-in-law, Bridget
Killeen Glynn, Mary Theresa packed up her five children and moved to Portsmouth,
Virginia “to be with family.” While that sounds like a reasonable thing to do,
Mary Theresa was moving to be with her deceased husband’s family while she had her
own four sisters and their families right there in New York City.
I don’t get it.
Nevertheless, move she did and by June 1906, she was
married to John Fleming Walsh.
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John Fleming Walsh 1868-1918 |
A news article indicates they married in a
Methodist church on either June 12 or 13.
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| Newport News Daily Press 14 Jun 1906 |
Yet there is also an entry in St.
Paul’s Catholic Church records that they were married by Father Thomas Brady on
June 17. I wonder why they married twice. At any rate, they married and settled
into life on Charlestown Avenue in Portsmouth.
Together they had three more children: Julia (my paternal
grandmother), Catherine (Cat), and Teresa Mary (Tate).
Walsh worked as an ordnance man for the Norfolk Naval
Shipyard. When he died in October 1918, the cause of death was officially
recorded as pulmonary tuberculosis. Given the timing, though, it is just as
likely he had contracted the Spanish flu.
Because Walsh had served as a private in the US Marines,
Mary Theresa and the three Walsh daughters qualified for a pension.
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| Walsh pension - payable quarterly |
Mary Theresa spent the rest of her days as a widow. It is
doubtful she had time for a third husband because several of her children were
a handful, to say the least. Alcoholism, job insecurity, a baby out-of-wedlock
in a good Catholic family, no less, and people moving out then coming back were
probably all the issues she could manage. My father used to say she was the
only stable force in the family.
Amy Johnson Crow continues to challenge genealogy
bloggers and non-bloggers alike to think about our ancestors and share a story
or photo about them. The challenge is “52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.”
Wendy
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