I like to think that my grandparents and grandaunts were
preservationists, but maybe they just forgot to throw stuff away.
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Stuff retrieved from my grandparents' attic |
Did they really intend to save
old textbooks,
store receipts,
property tax receipts,
automobile payment records, and
old letters?
Hardly the stuff that made eBay famous. Did they think this stuff was inherently
interesting or did they just forget they had it? Ironically enough, each
worthless scrap of paper has inspired a story here on
Jollett Etc. In doing so,
a bit of history, some insight into my ancestors’ lives, a window into how
things were back when have been preserved forever, whether it was my relatives’
intention or not.
The Jolletts were always rather sentimental, so I
understand keeping SOME things like the beautiful pine corner cupboard, James
Franklin Jollett’s fireside chair from his youth, a Victorian parlor lamp, and fine silver. Every room of my house has SOMETHING handed down from someone. Admittedly,
many people feel burdened by family heirlooms. Too much obligation and fear of
guilt. But I believe in LIVING with those heirlooms, not shoving them into an
attic. I use my great-grandmother’s Ball jars for canisters, a milk can as a
corral for mops and brooms, a feed scoop to hold remotes, and my
great-grandmother’s fireplace grate as an outdoor planter.
I used to be a purist when it came to preserving family heirlooms
but not anymore. I could have sanded and stained my childhood rocker for my
first grandchild, but I decided to paint it instead. When tastes and standards
change to favor natural wood, let HER strip the paint off like I have done to
countless washstands and tables.
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Before and After |
A few months ago, I decided to paint a round pedestal
table with three carved legs that my grandmother once had in her living room.
Now it is a bedside table painted to coordinate with a new color scheme. It is
not a GREAT table – in fact, it’s a little crooked – but it has a story. It is
the table that held my grandmother’s little Christmas tree.
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Before and After |
This past week my husband and I decided that it was
finally a good time to clean out the garage. It was easy deciding to get rid of
20 cans of paint, some rusted yard ornaments, wine festival glasses, an old
crockpot, dry-rotted volleyball net, and broken lawn chairs. But what about
those old trunks? And my childhood bicycle? Trunks – no problem – no
sentimental value so off to the thrift store they went. But my bicycle? Nope.
Can’t do it.
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My bike - Rollfast from about 1960 |
The question of what to do with it was answered in a
serendipitous moment when my daughter sent this photo of Miss A on her little
bike. My comment was: It’s time for a new bike.
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Miss A - 2021 |
New bike! That’s it – I’ll fix up my bike. New tires. New
seat. That should do it. Or so I thought.
I took my bike to a shop that specializes in bike repair
and restoration. From the reactions of the owner and his employee, you would
have thought I had brought in a priceless relic from the pyramids. They were
jealous that I still have my first (and only, actually) bike, and they were
impressed at the condition given its age. While I had intended to purchase
tires and a seat, they highly recommended an overhaul to remove old grease in
order for the bike to “go back into service,” as they put it.
A couple years ago when I wrote a story about learning to ride, I also thought out loud about what to do with this bike taking up space
in the garage. I had considered using it as yard art allowing vines to grow on
it. I’m glad I passed on that idea. Now in a couple weeks, my grandgirl will
have a bigger bike to ride, one with a history and a story going back to her
great-great grandfather who bought it and helped her grandmother learn to ride.
I’ve come to realize that if something has a story, it is
hard to let it go. Now what to do about this old croquet set missing two balls
and half the wickets. . . .
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Now and Before |
Amy Johnson Crow continues to challenge genealogy
bloggers and non-bloggers alike to think about our ancestors and share a story
or photo about them. The challenge is “52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.”
Wendy
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