This week’s Sepia Saturday photo is of sisters and their
dogs on the steps of a mansion. About 1935, someone snapped a picture of my
mother and her brother and their dog Fritz on the front steps of someone’s home
which was anything but a mansion. The smiling gentleman was their grandfather’s
brother known among family as “Uncle Renza.”
"Uncle Renza" (1871-1947) my mother Mary Eleanor Davis and her brother Orvin Jr. and of course, Fritz |
Apparently Uncle Renza was an object of pity. He seemed
to be poor. My mother thought maybe he was divorced. He would show up and then
disappear. But those are the recollections of a child. Just what was Uncle
Renza’s story?
He was born Lorenza Ridell McKinley Davis in 1871, the
thirteenth of fifteen children of Mitchell and Martha Willson Davis of Rockingham
County, Virginia. He obtained a sixth grade education, which was the typical
length of education in rural parts of the state at that time. In August 1892,
he married Chillis/Chelie Ann Shiflett of Greene County.
By 1900, Lorenza and Chelie or Anne or Anna, whatever she
went by, were the parents of four children under the age of six. As was typical
of women of the time, Anne took care of the household in their rented home in
Augusta County while her husband worked as a farm laborer, likely on someone
else’s farm.
Company houses at the logging camp near Boyer photo courtesy Cass Scenic Railroad State Park cassrailroad.com |
In the census record for that year, Lorenza and Anne
could boast that all six of six children were still living. But something must
have happened to the family after 1910. Lorenza and Anne are nowhere to be
found in either the 1920 or 1930 census. None of the usual creative spellings
and combinations have produced a hit. Maybe it was true – maybe they divorced
and maybe Anne remarried. Nevertheless, that does not explain Lorenza’s disappearance.
Most of their children did not show up in 1920 or 1930
either. Those that did were married but apparently did not take their parents
in.
Incorrect information on the children’s later marriage
and death records led me to search using the names “Lorenzo McKinley” and
“Alonzo Davis.” Still nothing.
Death Certificate for Chelie Anne Shiflett Davis |
Virginia death records recently released on Ancestry.com provided a few answers while sparking new questions. Anne’s whereabouts were confirmed: at least by 1939 and in failing health, she moved to Covington, Virginia, likely near, if not with, her daughter Bessie Weiford who was the informant on Anne’s death certificate. The answer to the question of whether she and Uncle Renza were divorced seems to be “No.”
However, in the 1940 census, Uncle Renza claimed he was
Single. Yet at his death in 1947, he was a widower according to his death
certificate.
For a few years at least, Uncle Renza seemed to be getting
by. He owned his home, but it was valued at only $100 while his neighbors’
homes were valued between $1200 and $6000. At age 69, he was still employed - as
a laborer for a private family. That probably translates as “handyman.” He was
already past the age of normal working years, so there is no telling how much
longer he was able to work.
As meager as Uncle Renza’s life seems to have been, his
circumstances must have taken a grim turn. The informant at his death was not
one of his children, not a sister or brother, not even a family friend. It was the Department of Public Welfare in
Fairfax, Virginia.
Whether he had been a long-time recipient of public assistance or had merely fallen on hard times in his declining years is not known. At any rate, my mother’s recollections of a “poor uncle” must have been right.
Death Certificate for Lorenza Ridell McKinley Davis |
Whether he had been a long-time recipient of public assistance or had merely fallen on hard times in his declining years is not known. At any rate, my mother’s recollections of a “poor uncle” must have been right.
Why don’t you and your sister take the dog for a walk to
the Sepia Saturday mansion?
© 2015, Wendy Mathias.
All rights reserved.
He had a long life even if he was poor - I always wonder how people get lost in the families, it seems such a shame.
ReplyDeleteI guess some people did something that others in their family just couldn't forgive.
DeleteWow, he seemed fascinating! Wouldn't you like to know "the rest of that story." I'm sure though a lot of families have an Uncle Renza in them.
ReplyDeletebetty
You're right -- Uncle Renzas are out there in every family, for sure.
DeleteGoodness, you have discovered so much about him. It does sound as though he had a rather sad and lonely life, and yet in the photo he appears to have such a happy, sincere smile. A giggle even. I'm thinking no matter what the road was,he had some happiness along the way. Of course being in the company of children and animals is always a sure bet. Love those long tall boots too.
ReplyDeleteI noticed that too, Karen. He seems kindly, surely a welcome visitor.
DeleteWhat a nice photo of you with your Uncle Renza! Poor fellow. Sounds like he had a hard life.
ReplyDeleteThat's not me -- that's my mother! Yes, it does sound like a hard life. He must have messed up pretty bad if his kids were not around for him in his old age.
DeleteWendy,
ReplyDeleteI want to let you know that your blog post is listed in today's Fab Finds post at http://janasgenealogyandfamilyhistory.blogspot.com/2015/09/follow-friday-fab-finds-for-september_25.html
Have a great weekend!
Well Jana, thank-you!
DeleteSo you don't think that Renza was really an uncle to your family at all? Sad story, but at least your family befriended him and he gets some recognition here in your post. Maybe someday a relative will find him here, get in touch with you and tell you more, even if they did not get in touch with him!
ReplyDeleteNo, he really was an uncle. He was my great-grandfather's brother.
DeleteYou unearthed through your research one of those stories that makes family history so fascinating.
ReplyDeleteI agree. I love tracing the story but I want the whole story.
DeleteA very interesting post with a great photo for this weekend's theme, Wendy. The name Lorenza is unusual as it's an Italianate feminine name, Lorenzo being more typical for a man. He also looks rather prosperous in his Sunday best suit. But in those days, even laborers always wore coat, hat, and tie.
ReplyDeleteI figured the "a" had to be a misprint, but I see it spelled that way for him more often than with an "o." Believe it or not, he was not the only LorenzA Davis living at the same time.
DeletePoor Uncle Renza. Wouldn't it be interesting to find out what happened to the family to break it up.
ReplyDeleteWe had a couple of single uncles too and they seemed sad to us because they didn't have children...but that was our child's point of view. I too love the tall lace-up boots.
My sister recalls our mother saying Renza was "flirty." Hmm -- I bet that was it. He might have been a cheater. If so, no wonder the kids turned their backs on him, especially if their mother had a hard life as a result.
DeleteThe theme photo is a treasure - everyone looks happy, and the occasion obviously rated with the family because a photo was taken to record the event. I reckon you'll find more positive info about Renzo, especially if you can get in touch with some of his descendants.
ReplyDeleteI hope the descendants find my blog. That would be very interesting for me.
DeleteGood research to learn as much as you did about your great great uncle! I kind of think that smile might be called a smirk, as if the joke was on the photographer, whoever that might have been!
ReplyDeleteYes, I always wonder who the photographer was.
DeleteI tried at the weekend but my comment didn;t go through. I love Uncle Renza and the fact that he is not forgotten. He looks like fun and they are having a lovely giggle. I hope you can find out more about him from his descendants.
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't?? I guess Blogger was acting up. I've had that experience on other people's blogs too. I'm glad you came back.
DeleteDig a little and so often family stories are full of sadness. But then I realize a lot of the time they appear to have been sad because of our personal perspective. They might have been fine with their lives. You've at least given voice to Uncle Renzo, whether complete or not.
ReplyDeleteRight - genealogy isn't for sissies.
DeleteI always feel so sad for those I uncover who seemed to be lacking for so much. Apparently he must have felt loved and welcomed with your mother's family.
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