What 80-year-old man gets invited to a 4-year old’s
birthday party? That was what I wanted to know when I stumbled upon this item
in the personals column.
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| from Harrisonburg Daily News Record 21 Nov 1916 |
I had other questions as well, mainly who were Mr. & Mrs. Charley Oliver, and were they related to my 2X great-grandfather James Franklin Jollett? Maybe they were related to his wife, Eliza Jane Coleman.
Once I slowed down and paid attention to the names of the other guests, the invitation made more sense. I recognized S. V. Shiflett. He was son of James Franklin’s sister Lucretia Jollett Shiflett.
The birthday girl was little Margaret Oliver, the one and
only daughter of Charley Oliver and Annie Florence Hott. Annie was a daughter
of Margaret Johnson and her second husband George Peter Hott. He died not long
after Annie was born. Margaret married a third time, and then a fourth time –
to Sell Shiflett making him Annie’s step-father and step-grandfather to
Margaret Oliver, the birthday girl. That makes James Franklin Jollett her step-great granduncle.
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Sell and Maggie photo courtesy Susan Huffman |
I wonder what was on the menu and what lovely presents
Margaret received.
And what about her later life? Margaret’s name appeared over
300 times in the personals column of the Harrisonburg Daily News Record between
1935 and 1969. Here is what the articles reveal:
- Margaret never married but the fellas apparently missed out
on a good cook. In 1935 she took first place at the Rockingham County Fair for
Best Quince Preserves, Best Peach Preserves, and second place for Best Damson
Preserves.
- Margaret and her mother visited people in hospitals in
nearby cities. They also vacationed together or with relatives going to places
like Pennsylvania, Colonial Beach, and Richmond.
- Margaret was active in the Methodist Church, often
hosting her Sunday School class social events. She also chaired a conference
for the Methodist Women. For several years she was in charge of Christmas
Baskets for the needy.
- The Olivers entertained family and friends. They were
also frequent guests at other parties and weddings. Margaret hosted a bridal
shower for a friend and sometimes served the cake at the weddings of her
cousins, nieces, and friends.
- As the consummate hostess, Margaret was able to surprise
her mother with a birthday party.
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from Daily News Record 15 Mar 1957 |
Margaret’s death certificate shows that she had been an
employee at Madison College (now James Madison University – GO DUKES!), but in
what capacity I do not know. Perhaps she had been a secretary, a cafeteria
worker, or even a dorm mother.
Margaret died in 1969, 10 years after her father and 10 years before her mother. Just as they were always together in life, they are together in death.
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from Findagrave Mt Olivet Cemetery, McGaheysville, VA |
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