Saturday, February 1, 2020

Sepia Saturday: Wherever You Tie Your Boat


Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.

This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt features a boat tied up along a canal wall. I am not a “boat person” per se because, unlike Goose and Maverick, I do not have a need for speed. However, my first ride on a gentle and slow-moving pontoon boat changed my life. In 2011 we bought a vacation home at Smith Mountain Lake in the southwestern part of Virginia. A pontoon came with it!
Wendy and Jollette 2016 SML https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Sister and Moi on the pontoon 2016
When the lake opened in 1969, its main purpose was to generate electricity and to serve as a recreational facility for weekenders. For $1000 a family could buy a lot where they could set up a tent or bring a camper. Folks fished from the bank or from a canoe or john boat, maybe even from a small run-about.

Plans for neighborhoods and condo communities were years away. While today there are many million-dollar homes, there are just as many small cabins, A-frames, rag-tag mobile homes and trailer parks.
SML https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Tanglewood Trailer Park
Probably years of immersion in family history and studying old photos has drawn me to the original homes and docks of Smith Mountain Lake. I took photos of some of them to use as artwork in a guest room.

No longer can anyone build a home out over the water. Such homes are grandfathered, but if they fall in, that’s IT - bye bye.

Old properties SML https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Nobody builds boat garages anymore. I certainly wouldn’t want to. They look like havens for snakes and spiders.

Old properties SML https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Old properties SML https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Homeowners with deep water and deep pockets enjoy party docks like these.
 
From Charity Home Tour 2019
From Charity Home Tour 2019
No, that is not ours. Ours is modest.
SML 2012 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Our girls and their guys 2013
Our dock in the background
See who is docked at Sepia Saturday.

Wendy
© 2020, Wendy Mathias. All rights reserved.

Wednesday, January 29, 2020

52 Ancestors - SO FAR AWAY: Velma's Great Korean Escape


When people ask if we are going to sell our home in Chesapeake and retire to our vacation home at Smith Mountain Lake permanently, I respond with an emphatic NO. My daughter’s family is here. My SISTER is here. I cannot imagine being far from either of them. My sister and I are not close in age, but we are every bit as emotionally close as our grandaunts Violetta and Velma. You can’t say one name without saying the other.

Violetta and Velma loved one another deeply and enjoyed being together. They especially loved traveling. In 1939 they traveled together to the New York World’s Fair.
 
New York World's Fair 1939
Postcard belonging to Violetta Davis Ryan
They were on a motor trip to New Orleans when they received word of their brother’s death in 1951.

Violetta traveled to Hawaii just a few short years after it became the 50th state. 
Violetta's trip to Hawaii 1953 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Honolulu Passenger and Crew List 1953
from FamilySearch
In 1954, Velma arrived in New York aboard a ship from Rotterdam.
 
Velma's trip home from Europe 1954 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
New York Passenger List 1954
from Ancestry
It is no surprise that Velma always imagined that the two of them would travel the world together. That is why it is so puzzling that in the late 1950s-ealry 1960s Velma took a job teaching in Korea for the Department of Defense Dependents Schools. DoDDS serves the children of military stationed overseas with the purpose of ensuring that American children get an American education.

Velma was widowed young, so there was nothing keeping her in Harrisonburg except the love for her sister. So why did she leave?

The only theory my cousin and I can devise is that Velma HATED Violetta’s business partner with a passion. We know Violetta rented a building to John for his piano and guitar business (I am withholding his full name to protect the privacy of his family who, frankly, do not deserve protection but so be it). Somehow Violetta became entwined with John’s wife and child as well. Wherever Violetta went, they were sure to follow. Violetta often arrived at my grandmother’s house with John’s wife and son in tow, much to everyone’s dismay.

Nobody liked them. NOBODY. NO. BO. DY. They were leaches. Violetta, a well-educated, well-respected woman, was somehow sucked into being a benefactor to this low-life family that always reminded me of the Snopes clan in William Faulkner’s Yoknapatawpha trilogy. (“They were just Snopeses like colonies of rats and termites are just rats and termites.”)

What hold they had over Violetta is a mystery. She was too smart and too good for them. Why couldn’t she see them for the money-grubbing users they were? Had I been Velma, I might have gone to Korea too.

 Actually, she seemed to enjoy teaching and serving as principal for the DoDDS.
 
Velma DoDDS Korea 1959 or later https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Velma with students of the DoDDS Korea
Some of these photos may have been taken when she was principal. The classroom looks typically American. The artwork displayed neatly on the bulletin boards and stapled artfully above the blackboard reminds me of every classroom I ever sat in during my own school days.
DoDDS in Korea https://jollettetc.blogspot.com


A unit on the Vikings would not be complete without drawings of ships.

DoDDS in Korea https://jollettetc.blogspot.com


Snowflake snowmen? The perfect activity for a lesson on um, er, uh, weather? Geometry? Whatever, you have to admire the kid who put the snowman in a hammock.


DoDDS in Korea https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Playground equipment at the DoDD School looked exactly like what I enjoyed at recess in Virginia in the 1950s and 60s.

DoDDS in Korea https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

DoDDS in Korea https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
That is probably Velma cut off in the dark coat.
Velma’s job in Korea made traveling to Japan and India easy.

Velma's trip to Indian https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Velma is in the hat, 6th from the right
Velma's trip to Indian https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
What an adventure!
Velma is sitting in the middle
Ill health eventually brought Velma home. She lived in one of Violetta’s apartments where Violetta took care of her in her final days.


Love wins.


Amy Johnson Crow continues to challenge genealogy bloggers and non-bloggers alike to think about our ancestors and share a story or photo about them. The challenge is “52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.

Wendy
© 2020, Wendy Mathias. All rights reserved. 

Saturday, January 25, 2020

Sepia Saturday: Playing Around


Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.

This week’s Sepia Saturday photo challenge presents a most delightful scene: children at play. Long before everyone had a trampoline in the backyard and bounce houses and ball pits for birthday parties, there was the swing set.
 
Mary J and Susan 1966 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Our backyard 1966
My sister Mary Jollette on the right with her friend Susan
A couple swings, maybe a glider or seesaw, a slide if your parents could afford it provided hours of fun in their simplicity. If you pumped hard enough you could force the supports out of the ground. Thrilling!
Sears ad 1960s

My children came along in the early 1980s when notions about good parenting seemed to be changing, or maybe I was just more aware being a new parent myself. Lamaze classes promoting “prepared childbirth” promised a more fulfilling birth experience and bonding with your baby. Breast-feeding was making a big comeback thanks to groups like La Leche League. Fathers were given greater emphasis as an equal partner in raising happy, healthy children.

Parents were challenged to prepare children emotionally, physically, and intellectually for a changing world. Playtime was to be learning time too. Conscientious parents made sure to provide educational toys, not anything silly or frivolous that failed to challenge the future leaders of the world. 

Given the attitudes of the day, it is no surprise that the common metal swing set was snubbed in favor of wood structures that inspired creativity. The message was clear: the ideal play equipment should help children develop their large motor skills AND their imagination.

I drank the Kool-Aid.

I even purchased a book about fatherhood written BY a DAD so that my husband would know exactly what to do and how to act. The dad-author shared wonderful stories of playtime. He even provided instructions for building a playset.

We can build that!
 
Playset 1989 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Photo taken in 1989, the year we sold our house
and left the playset behind. 
And we did. 
Barry 1983 building the playset https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Barry 1983
Barry 1983 building the playset https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Drilling holes for closet poles 1983
Poles for climbing. 

Two levels of platforms. 

A rope for climbing or swinging. 

A tire for a target or a lookout. 

Surely we were doing what it took for our girls to to become chemistry professors and business executives.



We were determined to be the best parents. But we still had to have REAL swings so we added this monstrosity.


Our play equipment seemed pretty big in the 1980s, but it does not compare to the set Santa brought my grand-baboo this past Christmas.

 




Hmm – she has a rock wall, rope ladder, AND a telescope. Why didn’t we think of that?





Please visit my friends at the Sepia Saturday playground.

Wendy
© 2020, Wendy Mathias. All rights reserved.

Wednesday, January 22, 2020

52 Ancestors - CLOSE TO HOME: Camp Sherwood Forest


As a child in the 1960s, I loved being a Girl Scout. Every week I was proud to put on that uniform and walk down Gillis Road to the little green Scout building on Afton Parkway.
 
The Woman's Club building AND Scout cabin
are now gone - made way for progress and new houses
One of the best parts of Girl Scouts was going to summer day camp. I used to have to bug my mother to get me registered. Invariably on the first day of camp when we gathered at the flag pole for our day troop assignments, I was always one of maybe three girls whose names were not called (I guess their mothers were procrastinators, too), so we had to be assigned after all the others skipped happily off to their campsites. After the initial embarrassment of having to find my group, I was the perfect happy camper. 

Day camp was like a different world for me. I was doing things my parents didn’t do with me. I was learning things most of my friends were not learning. It was adventure. It was independence.

Here is what I liked about summer camp:
  • Preparing for camp and making my own sit-upon by weaving folded sheets of newspaper into a not-so-comfy square mat covered in oil cloth 
    NOT mine - These are my daughters' sit-upons
    from when they were in Girl Scouts
  • Taking part in the flag ceremony and it didn’t matter whether I got to raise and lower the flag or serve as an honor guard 
  • Reading the daily duty list to see whether my group was in charge of cleaning latrines, clearing weeds from the walk paths using a little hatchet (yes!  A hatchet!), setting up for lunch, or cooking
  • Hearing the bell ring when the milk truck arrived delivering little cartons of milk to all the campers
  • Doing wood crafts and art projects around a big picnic table with other campers
  • Learning to identify trees – I still amaze people with my ability to tell the difference between red and white oaks, and to know a Sassafras tree by its three different-shaped leaves
  • Cooking on an open fire once a week – usually Hunter’s Stew
  • Making our own stove out of a #10 can and a tuna can with rolled corrugated paper and paraffin wax, called a Buddy Burner 
  • Learning First Aid, in particular how to make a tourniquet and a sling for a broken arm
  • Learning to load a bow and shoot an arrow
  • Singing Taps in a Friendship Circle at the end of the day before boarding the bus to go home

Part of the fun was just getting there. Brownies and Girl Scouts ages 6-12 rode together on a bus. An older Girl Scout was in charge and she always led us in fun songs like “John Jacob Jingleheimer Schmidt,” “The Bear Went Over the Mountain,” and “Make New Friends.”  

We sang lots of songs because the ride to camp was a long one. We wound through my neighborhood Cradock, and then out to other parts of Portsmouth – West Cradock, Highland Biltmore, Simonsdale, Park Manor, and other places I have since forgotten. At the time, I probably had no clue what the neighborhoods were. They just seemed so far away. It must have taken well over an hour to pick up everyone and then head out across the Hodges Ferry Bridge.

The former Hodges Ferry Bridge
from bridgehunter.com
The Hodges Ferry Bridge was definitely at the edge of the world for me. My family never had a need to go that way. There was nothing but farm land, woods, and wide-open fields.

And Camp Sherwood Forest.

Far from home in the middle of nowhere. 

Or so I thought.

It was my last day of camp EVER because I was aging out of day camp opportunities unless I wanted to be the older girl monitoring young campers on the bus. Parents were invited to a program where the day campers displayed their crafts, performed dances, sang camp songs, and led the singing of Taps in the closing ceremony. Instead of riding the bus home, I hopped into the car with my parents.

I was surprised when my dad turned left out of the long gravel path instead of right as the bus driver always did. In a few minutes time, we were on High Street in Portsmouth. There was Churchland High School! There was the Churchland Bridge! All very familiar and just minutes from my home. Camp Sherwood Forest was NOT in the middle of nowhere. Indeed, it was much closer to home than I thought if you go THIS way instead of THAT way.

What a disappointment. It was akin to learning the truth about the Tooth Fairy and Easter Bunny.

Flash forward 50 years. Where I live today is part of the former farm land, woods, and wide-open fields that once defined “the edge of the world” beyond Hodges Ferry Bridge.
Just a small part of Western Branch community in Chesapeake, VA
My house is marked by the blue circle, upper far right.
Camp Sherwood Forest WAS in the upper left part of the picture. 
Neighborhoods, shopping centers, businesses, gas stations, schools, churches, and a YMCA now fill the area that once was the middle of nowhere. In fact, I can actually walk to the neighborhood where I learned to handle a bow and arrow. The tell-tale power lines are still there just as they were those summers so many years ago.



The archery range was
where the power lines
stood even then.












Of course, now I’m wondering whose house was built over the latrines at Camp Sherwood Forest.

Amy Johnson Crow continues to challenge genealogy bloggers and non-bloggers alike to think about our ancestors and share a story or photo about them. The challenge is “52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks.”

Wendy
© 2020, Wendy Mathias. All rights reserved.

Saturday, January 18, 2020

Sepia Saturday: I Swanny


Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.


My first thought when I saw this week’s Sepia Saturday prompt was, “Well, I swanny.” That is an expression I have heard my entire life. Is it just a Southern “thang”? Do people in other regions of the United States say it too?

Do people in Boston say “I swanny”? I can’t imagine. However, when in Boston, one must take a ride on the Swan Boats. It’s an iconic thing, a must do, like kissing the Blarney Stone when in Ireland. 
Wendy and Swan Boats 2007 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Copied from my Boston Vacation scrapbook
Me 2007 at the Swan Boats
A cruise around the pond in the Public Garden was the first stop on a mother-daughter trip in 2007 with my younger daughter Zoe. 
View from our seat on the Swan Boat
The boats are a pontoon boat powered like a bicycle just as they were when first introduced in 1877. The driver sits on a paddlebox hidden by a fiberglass swan.

Yes, the Swan Boat ride is a bit corny, but it is a peaceful and pleasant way to spend 15-minutes.
 
Photo courtesy wikimedia commons
On our Rhine River cruise last May, we saw plenty of swans. As we headed into the locks, the swans wisely got out of our way. 
Swans on the Rhine 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

The ducks? Not so much. They often were stuck in the locks with a couple of river boats and barges. That’s one way to migrate.
Ducks in a lock on the Rhine 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com
Ducks in a lock on the Rhine 2019
On a post-trip to Lucerne, we knew right away that the city loves swans. Near our hotel, the floral centerpiece of the median is a swan.
Median along Schweizerhofquai, Lucerne
 The REAL ones in Lake Lucerne were enchanting too.
Swans on Lake Lucerne 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Swan on Lake Lucerne 2019 https://jollettetc.blogspot.com

Please visit the other bloggers at Sepia Saturday. How they find so many wonderful old photos and delightful stories is beyond me. I swanny!

Wendy
© 2020, Wendy Mathias. All rights reserved.