Friday, February 7, 2014

Sepia Saturday: Good-bye Marion

Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.




This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt is the piano.  When I was growing up in the 60’s (that’s 1960’s, thank-you), two things every family wanted in their home were a set of encyclopedias and a piano.  We had both.  Music was part of the family identity, I suppose.

Fred, Mary Eleanor, Wendy Slade Christmas 1952
Momma and Daddy were obviously proud.
I'm sure I banged out a lovely melody on my
baby grand piano that Christmas 1952.
Lucille Davis, Mary Jollette and Wendy Slade Aug 1959
Mary Jollette's "first piano" was this little upright.
Grandma Lucille Davis and I were there
to make sure Mary Jollette didn't fall off the seat.

My grandaunt Violetta Davis Ryan even had a room where she kept her piano and an organ.  She always called it “The Music Room.”  You could hear those capital letters when she said the words.

We’re not musical like the Osmond family, but everyone was expected to take music lessons.

Even during the Depression, my mother was lucky enough to have lessons in piano and tap at the Harman School of Music in Shenandoah, Virginia.

Harman School of Music Shenandoah, Virginia
former Harman School of Music
Pennsylvania Avenue, Shenandoah, Virginia

It’s a tiny building.  My dad used to joke that the building was so small the little chorus line of Shirley Temple wannabes probably had to shuffle out the back door.  But it must have been a good school because Momma used to show us the hop-shuffle-down-step-step steps.  There are just some lessons you never forget. 

She was less enchanted with piano lessons though.  Momma could play by ear, but she was not much for actually reading music.  I guess she saw no need to remember “Every Good Boy Does Fine” or “Great Big Dogs Fight Animals,” much less how to count a dotted quarter note.  If she knew the tune, she could sit down and play it with a flourish.
Mary Eleanor Davis Slade Christmas Eve 1992
1993 - Momma either had been playing or was preparing
to play some Christmas carols for the kids.
Clay Pollock, Justin Anderson, Joel Pollock.

Word of her musical prowess must have spread to her colleagues at Cradock Junior High School.  When the faculty was planning a big celebration for a revered teacher who was getting ready to retire, they asked Momma to write a special song to perform at the party.  One afternoon she sat down at the piano, thought for a minute, and then with all the gusto of JoAnn Castle on the Lawrence Welk Show, Momma began playing “Toot Toot Tootsie.” 

Soon the words came: 
Good-bye Marion, Good-bye.
Good-bye Marion.  Don’t cry.
You know our thoughts of you are high
Just like the Fourth of July.

"Like the Fourth of July"? What the heck does that mean?

Well, think of it as “freewriting” or “brainstorming” in which the rule is that there are no rules.   All I can say is that my sister and I were rolling on the floor laughing.  Momma was laughing and crying at the same time, maybe because of the words, or maybe because she caught a glimpse in her mind’s eye of what it would be like to perform this little ditty for a woman who had been her mentor, a consummate educator, a much-loved teacher for decades.   

I don’t know what the final version of the song was, but this is the one that even after 40 years can be recalled in a moment’s notice.   

For more stories about pianos, please visit my friends at Sepia Saturday.  They may not always be “upright,” but they are always “grand.” 




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Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Wordless Wednesday: Up on the Roof

Wordless Wednesday is a daily prompt at Geneabloggers that asks family historians to create a post in which the main focus is a photograph or image.


Fred Slade's Coast Guard Scrapbook Thule, Greenland, 1946-47




This photo is from my dad’s scrapbook of pictures taken during his time in the Coast Guard 1946-47.  He made several trips between Boston and Thule, Greenland, which is most likely where this photo was taken.  Where else would someone have clothes on the line while needing to shovel snow off the roof?




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Sunday, February 2, 2014

52 Ancestors: #5 - Mary JOLLETT Forrester

Amy Johnson Crow of No Story Too Small has issued a challenge:  write one blog post each week devoted to a specific ancestor.  It can be a story, a biography, a photograph, an outline of a research problem – anything that focuses on one ancestor.




Another ancestor in my “imagined” family is Mary Jollett, born in Culpeper County, Virginia in 1750.  I say “imagined” because she HAS to be related to my known Jolletts, but I just don’t know how.  For now she’s an asterisk in the family tree, possibly a daughter of James and Gracey, possibly sister to Thomas, or – perish the thought – none of the above.

What is known about Mary is that at the age of 18 in 1768 she married John Dodgens Forrester, also from Culpeper County.  Supposedly they had 9 children, but a comparison of Forrester family trees on Ancestry reveals conflicting names and dates – surprise!  Would a Jonathan, James, and Joel all die on the same day in New Orleans? 

Ignoring the fine details for now, I think I have a fairly good handle on Mary and John’s family.  In the late 1700s they moved to Wilkes County, North Carolina.  The reason is unknown, but I have a theory.  Following the Revolutionary War, the American Treasury was in bad shape.  Unable to pay the Continental Army, the government granted land to many of the soldiers.  John had served, as evidenced by Mary’s application for a widow’s pension, but I don’t know whether he would have been offered land out of his state of service.  What do I know?  At any rate, they were there, as were other Forrester families.
John Dodgens Forrester and son Fielding

The Forresters and several adult children and their families can be located in Wilkes County census records at least through 1810.  

John D. Forrester, his son John,
and son-in-law William DeBoard

After that time, they joined the western migration.  North Carolina’s leaders were notorious for refusing to spend tax money on any form of economic advancement, schools, or roads.  The State did nothing to educate farmers about the importance of crop rotation, and as a result farmland suffered and poverty spread.  Eventually the most populated state in the union was decimated as citizens just gave up and headed west where they easily found cheaper land to farm at a profit. 

One stop along the way was Robertson, Tennessee.  Robertson’s claim to fame was its whiskey production and strong tobacco industry.  Considering that tobacco has long been king in North Carolina, I wonder if John and Mary were tobacco farmers. 

John Dodgens Forrester died in Robertson October 1815.

By 1820, Mary and at least some of her children and their families settled in White County, Illinois.  Each census from 1820 to 1840 pictures the Forresters, DeBoards, and Bolerjacks as near neighbors.  I suppose Mary lived with one of her children because she does not appear as Head of Household until 1830.  

Son John, son-in-law William DeBoard
and son-in-law John Bolerjack


John Forrester, Mary Forrester,
William DeBoard, John Bolerjack


But is this the right Mary?  The one female is entered in the age 50-60 column; MY Mary would have been closer to 80.  It is more likely she was living with her daughter Lucy and son-in-law John BOLERJACK since there is a woman listed as 80-90 in that household.  
















Then in 1840, the Bolerjacks list a woman aged 90-100.  The age fits Mary’s timeline according to most Forrester researchers. 

Mary’s exact date of death is unknown although it is assumed she died before 1850, maybe about 1848. She applied for a widow’s pension in 1847 but was denied on grounds of failure to prove John Dodgens Forrester had ever served during the Revolutionary War.  (Doing the math, it seems unlikely any of his comrades would have still been alive to vouch for his service.  Plus they were many miles and several mountain ranges away from their home state.)  

A quick look at the 1940 census shows the Forresters, Bolerjacks, DeBoards and other related families were still a strong presence in White County and other parts of Illinois.  While I might not know for sure how Mary Jollett Forrester is related to me, it’s still amazing to see how far that Jollett DNA has spread. 




Three Generations

John Dodgens FORRESTER (Abt. 1750 Culpeper, VA – Abt. 1815 Robertson, TN) & Mary JOLLETT (Abt. 1750 Culpeper, VA – Abt. 1848 White, IL)
1. A. H. (Hezekiah?) FORRESTER (Abt. 1768 Culpeper, VA - )

2. Fielding FORRESTER (10 Jan 1769 Culpeper, VA – After 1850 Rabun, GA) & Elizabeth BRUCE (1770 Culpeper, VA – 1860 Rabun, GA)
  • Milly Rebecca FORRESTER (1796 Wilkes, NC – 1878 Cole, MO) & John FORRESTER
  • Jonathan FORRESTER (1804 Wilkes, NC – 1840 Macon, NC) & Lucinda MILLSAP
3. Delpha FORRESTER (4 Oct 1771 Culpeper, VA - ?) & Joseph GRIFFIN (Abt 1770 - )

4. Lydia FORRESTER (22 Aug 1775 Culpeper, VA – 10 Apr 1847 White, IL) & William DEBOARD (1769 Stokes, NC – 1 Mar 1855 White, IL)
  • Robert DEBOARD (1800 Stokes, NC – 7 Sep 1849 White, IL) & Elizabeth BOLERJACK (1803 Stokes, NC – 1885 White, IL)
  • Hannah DEBOARD (1802 - ) & John COOK (1794 – 1854 Hamilton, IL)
  • Mary Selinda DEBOARD (1807 - ) & Jonathan YATES (1810 – After 1850 White, IL)
  • Elizabeth DEBOARD (1809 – 1865 White, IL) & William SUMMERS (1807 – 1886 White, IL)
  • Winnie DEBOARD (1810 - 1870) & Samuel HILL (1809 – Aft. 1870 White, IL)
  • Solomon DEBOARD (1812 - ) & Elizabeth NICHOLAS (1815 - )
  • Lydia DEBOARD (1813 – 1860) & David SUMMERS (1813 – 1848 White, IL)
  • Mahala DEBOARD (1815 - ) & Isaac SMITH
  • Nancy DEBOARD (1829 – 1860)
5. Jonathan FORRESTER (16 Nov 1778 Culpeper, VA – 8 Jan 1815 New Orleans, LA)

6. John C. FORRESTER (28 Aug 1783 – After 1860 White, IL) & Emily Ann VINYARD (1802 – 1865 White, IL)
**unsure on children

7. Joel FORRESTER (10 Jul 1785 – 8 Jan 1815 New Orleans, LA)

8. James FORRESTER (1787 – 8 Jan 1815 New Orleans, LA)

9. Lucy FORRESTER (2 May 1793 Wilkes, NC – 1872 Hamilton, IL) & John E. BOLERJACK (1795 – 1857 White, IL)
  • Elizabeth BOLERJACK (8 Jun 1821 White, IL – 16 Aug  1899 White, IL) & John Caleb DeBOARD (1826 – 1864 White, IL)
  • James Kent BOLERJACK (12 Jun 1822 White, IL – 4 Nov 1898 White, IL) & Mary Rebecca MCKENZIE (1826 – 1883)
  • Mary Matilda BOLERJACK (1823 – ) & James H. DEMPSEY (1820 - )
  • Elvira BOLERJACK (1826 - )
  • John E. BOLERJACK (1830 –
  • Lucy Emily BOLERJACK (7 Apr 1836 White, IL– 1 Apr 1891 Saline, IL) & M1)William Casey JARRELL, M2) Hiram DEMPSEY (1836 – 1901 Saline, IL)



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Friday, January 31, 2014

Sepia Saturday: The Runaway

Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.




This week’s Sepia Saturday photo prompt is a suitcase.  A suitcase implies travel, maybe for business, maybe for pleasure.  But sometimes we are just fed up and need to get away. 

What kid has never felt the need to teach their parents a lesson and just pack up and leave?  Ask my sister – she’ll tell you.

THE RUNAWAY

Mary Jollette Slade Portsmouth, Virginia
Mary Jollette

Baby sister Mary Jollette was about 6 or 7 years old when she had had enough.  Why?  Because of this woman. . . .

THE MEAN WOMAN  

Mary Eleanor Davis Slade faculty photo
Mary Eleanor Slade
Faculty Photo about 1965-66

Yes, our mother.  According to Mary Jollette, Momma was no fun and she never let her have any fun either.  Momma steadfastly refused to let Mary Jollette take ballet classes.  No future Margot Fonteyn for this family!  And no horseback riding lessons either.  No riding “The Pie” to victory in the Grand National.  What’s a child to do?

Run away, of course.  That'll show'em.

THE ACCOMPLICES

Grandma - Lucille Davis

#1 -  Grandma was tired of hearing Mary Jollette whine and fuss, so she told her to go, just run away.  Grandma even helped her pack.  Mary Jollette didn’t have a proper suitcase, child-size or otherwise, so they used a paper bag.













Rusty Taylor Portsmouth, Virginia
Friend - Rusty Taylor

#2 – Mary Jollette knew she could rely on her best buddy Rusty Taylor for aid and company while giving Momma time to come to her senses and pay for ballet.














Nancy Taylor Portsmouth, Virginia
Nancy Taylor (the Mean Woman is behind Rusty)

#3 – Rusty’s mother Nancy (Momma’s BFF, by the way) would never turn away a kid who was like her own. 
















THE ESCAPE ROUTE 


From our house, it was just a short walk to the corner where Grandma lived and then a left turn onto Frailey.  The safe house was the second one on the left.









THE RETURN

A long time passed.  Maybe a couple hours.  The phone rang.  Nancy said it was time for Mary Jollette to go home.  So she went.

Momma didn’t say anything about the running away business.  But she did complain loud and long about Grandma packing ALL those clothes that Momma then had to put away.  Where was Grandma then?


Please travel to Sepia Saturday – no need to pack a suitcase!



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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Wordless Wednesday: So Cold!

Wordless Wednesday is a daily prompt at Geneabloggers that asks family historians to create a post in which the main focus is a photograph or image.


 
Violetta Davis Ryan about 1922-23, Harrisonburg, VA
Grandaunt Violetta Davis Ryan on the right
Argene Lauck on the left
at Harrisonburg Teachers College about 1922
in front of Spotswood Hall

In 1922 or 1923, the girls of Harrisonburg Teachers College bundled up for a big snow.   And thanks to the Polar Vortex of 2014, so are we!


Sunday, January 26, 2014

52 Ancestors: #4 - That OTHER Jollett Family

Amy Johnson Crow of No Story Too Small has issued a challenge:  write one blog post each week devoted to a specific ancestor.  It can be a story, a biography, a photograph, an outline of a research problem – anything that focuses on one ancestor.




Last time I mentioned another Jollett family living in Culpeper County, Virginia, James and Gracey.  While it looks like they would be likely candidates for the parents of my confirmed James Jollett, “Gracey” as mother defies logic considering all the marriage records on which “Mary” is listed as mother of the bride.  Instead I have tricked myself into assuming they are an aunt and uncle, but I do realize they need more attention than I have given to their research. 

What I do know for sure is that there was a James JOLET who obtained a land patent for 61.5 acres in Spotsylvania County in 1748.  That puts him in the time frame of Thomas and William Jollett. 

In exchange for the land, James Jolet was required to pay one shilling for every 50 acres of land on the Feast of St. Michael the Arch Angel.  “Michaelmas” fell on September 29, the beginning of autumn when harvest was done.  In addition, he was expected to cultivate and improve 3 acres for every 50; failure to do so would result in revocation of the patent.  (I do not know for sure whether the payment was to King George II or to the governor of the Virginia colony.)

Then in 1760, James JOLLY purchased 127 acres along Little Crooked Run in Culpeper County from Joseph and Mary James.  I have transcribed the indenture, but to avoid a snooze-fest of legal jargon, I have isolated the description of the property because metes and bounds are just fun to read:

. . . Grant, Bargain Sell Enfeoff and Confirm unto the said James Jolly his heirs and assigns forever all that Tract or Parcel of Land Situated lying and being in the County aforesaid and on little Crooked Run and Bounded as followeth. Beginning at two Maples and Red Oak on Little Crooked Run in Beverlys line thence with his line North Twenty seven Degrees East One Hundred and Sixty eight poles to a White Oak and Two Pines Corner to the said Beverly and Henry Field, thence with the said Field’s line North Seventy two Degrees West one hundred and four poles to a White Oak and Pine thence South Twenty seven West one hundred and Sixty eight poles to two Pines on the North side Crooked Run thence South Six Degrees West fifty poles to three Pines on Kirtley Road thence East Sixty Pole to a White Oak on the South side the said Road thence North Seventy Degrees East Seventeen pole to a Maple and White Oak in the Little Crooked Run thence down the Several Meanders of the Run to the Beginning. Containing One hundred Twenty seven acres of Land . . . .

Seventeen years later, James and Gracey JOLLETT sold 127 acres along Little Crooked Run to Alexander Newman.  Let’s compare those metes and bounds:

. . . one hundred twenty seven acres of land in County aforesaid on Little Crooked Run bounded beginning at two Maples on the aforesaid run in BEAVERLY's line thence with his line North to two pines Corner to said Beaverly and HENRY FIELD thence with said Field's line North to a white oak on the North side of Crooks Run thence South West to KIRTLEY's ROAD thence East to a white oak on the South side of the said road to a Maple in Little Crooked Run down the several courses of the run to the first beginning. . . . 

Yep, sounds like the same property to me.  I wonder if those maples and white oaks are still standing.  Seriously, obviously this Jolly and Jollett are the same person.  The difference in spelling might indicate a pronunciation, perhaps French. 

(LIGHT BULB moment:  maybe James and Gracey were Thomas’s parents – it makes sense for Thomas to name a son after his father, little James’s grandfather). 

To do list:
  1. Look for wills, marriage records in Culpeper County using variant spellings Jollett, Jolet, Jolley, Jolly
  2. Look to see if Newman sold the land



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Friday, January 24, 2014

Sepia Saturday: Don't Turn Your Back

Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.





This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt focuses on the very thing that defines “winter” in the northern hemisphere:  SNOW.  However, here in Virginia, winters can pass us by without the first sign of a snowflake.  We are just as likely to be able to craft a snow angel or small snowman in early spring. 

In October 1925, a snowstorm out of the Gulf of Mexico dumped between 1 and 3 inches of the white stuff up and down the east coast from Virginia to Southern New England.  The unexpected mix of orange leaves and snow must have delighted the college girls at Harrisonburg Teachers College, judging by the number of photos in my grandaunt Velma Davis Woodring’s scrapbook. 

Many of the pictures were taken on campus looking across Main Street to the Wellington apartments where Velma lived during her college days. 

Velma Davis Woodring Oct 1925 Harrisonburg Teachers College (now James Madison University)
Velma Davis Woodring October 1925
Not the best shoes for snow!

Leta LeVow Oct 1925 Harrisonburg Teachers College (now James Madison University)
College roommate Leta LeVow October 1925

Oct 1925 Harrisonburg Teachers College




A couple photos made me think the girls had enjoyed a bit of a snowball fight.  However upon closer inspection of the enlarged scanned version, I discovered that what I thought was the remnants of a well-aimed snowball was actually a FACE. 


A face of Uncle Sam?? 

And a dog??

















And here’s another strange coat with what? a cat? on the back.













                                                                                    
What kind of coats were these?  Is it a joke or did the flapper generation actually dress like this?






Grab a coat and slip on over to Sepia Saturday for more wintery tales and scenes.



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