Thursday, January 2, 2014

A New Year's Challenge

In 2013, bridal showers, weddings, Shutterfly, and trips occupied my time, and this poor blog took quite a hit.  Research on my family suffered even more.  Making New Year’s resolutions has never been my habit.  However, here on Day 2 of 2014 I resolve to return to something that resembles “normalcy.” 

In my effort to get back to a normal routine, I spent much of New Years day catching up on the blogs of my blogging friends who have been long-neglected.  One of them was Debi Austen’s “Who Knew.”   Her annual New Year’s post on her Top 10 Genealogical Finds shamed me into admitting I probably couldn’t claim even five finds.  But guess what – I think I can.  Sound the trumpets:

Top 10 Genealogical Finds of 2013:

10 – It’s not a great advance in my research, but I am proud of the creative thinking and circuitous clicking around the Internet that helped me find the family of Imogene Davis, my second cousin once removed.  By tracking down her husband’s obituary, I discovered that she had been married before.  Thanks to the inclusion of maiden names of the stepchildren, I was able to add quite a bit of information to my Davis database.

The back of the photo says
 "Bob sucks her thumb"
9 – The last name of two children whose pictures are the subject of a small album continues to elude me, but my search parameters have taken a sharp turn since I discovered that “John Jr. and Bob” are not BROTHERS but a brother and SISTER.















8 – A Sepia Saturday photo prompt sent me in search of information about the “Neptune Party,” a naval tradition associated with crossing the equator.  This gave me some new insight into the life of my maternal grandmother’s brother Ray Rucker.

Cousin Nell


7 – I was finally able to enter “Cousin Nell” in my database when I read some letters she had sent to my grandaunt Lillie Killeen.  Nell had sent her granddaughter’s engagement announcement which included Nell’s full name:  Ellen GLYNN Sullivan.  So it turns out Nell’s mother and Lillie’s father were brother and sister.   Knowing that helped me to identify some other pictures too.

6 – A signature in a wedding guest book plus a letter plus a few identified photos plus a “shaky leaf” on Ancestry equals Olive Williams, one of my grandaunt Velma’s best friends.  That led to a brief correspondence with Olive’s granddaughter who was in turn glad to be able to identify photos of Velma.  She even has the teapot Velma gave Olive as a wedding gift.  Connections like this give me hope that more connections will be possible through the Internet.
Olive Williams 1928

5 – The activities of my grandaunt Helen Killeen Parker have been the subject of several blog posts.  A casual comment by a reader sent me on a little hunt resulting in my discovery that Helen and her friends had ridden on a longboat through the Deep Creek locks in the Dismal Swamp.  Not an earth-shattering discovery, just a cute footnote in Helen’s life, I guess.

4 – I learned the truth about my grandaunt Velma Davis Woodring – she wasn’t the basketball star in college that we had believed based on the official team photo glued prominently in her college scrapbook.  Trying to flesh out the details of the 1924-25 season led to my discovery that the girl we had always thought was Velma was someone else.   Boy, they surely looked alike!

3 – I have found very few facts about my dad’s maternal grandfather and my great grandfather John Fleming Walsh, but research on some medals gave me a clearer picture of his life as a marine during the Spanish American War.

John Fleming Walsh

2 – Researching my 3g grandmother Mary Ann Armentrout Jollett  has always been difficult because of the invisible role of women in her time.  To make matters more challenging, she lived in a “Burnt County” whose records were largely destroyed during the Civil War.  But now I have strong reason to believe I have found her family – the Lingles.  YAY

1 – The most significant find in Jollett research has been the confirmation through DNA that William P. Boyd was actually William H. Jollett.  This is not MY discovery, but I am glad to have had a hand in it.

William H. Jollett
(aka William P. Boyd)

I'm looking forward to more great finds in 2014.



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Friday, December 20, 2013

Sepia Saturday: Merry Christmas!

Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.




In keeping with this week’s Sepia Saturday prompt, I send holiday greetings to my fellow Sepians and to all readers and followers.  My Christmas card to you is a photo of this year’s fireplace mantle.


Davis heirlooms for decorating http://jollettetc.blogspot.com


In some ways the mantle is fairly typical with its artificial wreath and garland.  However, the family heirlooms make it special – to me, at least.  



The two silver platters had belonged to my grandaunt Violetta Davis Ryan (the one on the left) and to my maternal grandmother Lucille Rucker Davis (the one on the right).  












 

The two red vases were also Violetta’s.  They are 1930’s Depression glass, Royal Ruby Red ivy bowls by Anchor Hocking.  











Christmas is about family.  Decorating with family heirlooms is a good way to keep family history alive. 

Please visit my friends at Sepia Saturday for more holiday greetings.

Merry Christmas, y’all!  And Happy Blogging in 2014!




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Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Wordless Wednesday: Christmas 1964


Wordless Wednesday is a daily prompt at Geneabloggers that asks family historians to create a post in which the main focus is a photograph or image.




My sister Christmas 1964, just a couple weeks shy of her 6th birthday.




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Friday, December 6, 2013

Sepia Saturday: The Whole Fam Damily

Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.




This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt is the apron.  If the numbers of photos are any indication, my grandaunt Helen Killeen Parker must have had wonderful memories of summers spent at Ocean View between 1918 and 1920.  An apron is not the typical garb for the beach, but the age-old symbol of domestic life is present in three pictures that always evoke the same response from me.

This one makes me laugh because of the caption written on autographic film:


From album of Helen Killeen Parker about 1920
"The whole darn family"


This one makes me wonder:


From album of Helen Killeen Parker about 1920Mrs. ?  For a long time I tried to make it say “Mrs. Walsh” in the hopes of seeing my great-grandmother or her mother-in-law, my great-great grandmother.  However, based on the next photo, I gave up on that idea.  Now I simply wonder who she was and what baby she was holding.


















From album of Helen Killeen Parker about 1920
"Momma Ollice & the gang"
This one makes me want to drop everything and spend time on Ancestry.com


Momma Ollice.  Who?  My best GUESS, based on the apparent age of this aproned woman, is that she was the GRANDMOTHER of the WOMAN who married the oldest SON of Helen’s COUSIN Matthew Glynn, son of the SISTER of Helen's FATHER.  That would mean also that Momma Ollice was the GREAT-GRANDMOTHER of the girl who sang at my wedding. 











How’s that for connecting the “whole darn family”?


I’m cutting the apron strings and sending you off to Sepia Saturday for more stories and photos about aprons.



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Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Wordless Wednesday: The Marrying Kind

Wordless Wednesday is a daily prompt at Geneabloggers that asks family historians to create a post in which the main focus is a photograph or image.

From album of Helen Killeen Parker 1918-1921
Ideal Husbands yet to be
Numbered left to right 4, 3, 2, 1
Numbers indicate who will be married first


This circa 1920 photo from the album of my grandaunt Helen Killeen Parker makes some predictions about which man will marry first.  She numbered the “Ideal Husbands yet to be” in the order in which they would likely marry.  She predicted Ideal Husband #1 would marry "very soon."

I wonder if her predictions were born out.

Most of all, I wonder who these ideal husbands were.  




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Friday, November 29, 2013

Sepia Saturday: A Nod to Movember

Sepia Saturday challenges bloggers to share family history through old photographs.




This week’s Sepia Saturday prompt picturing a mustached swimmer with his trophies pays homage to the “Movember” efforts to raise awareness of men’s health issues.  This November Matt Lauer and Al Roker of the “Today” show grew beards in support. They even agreed to have prostate exams live on national television because prostate cancer is the most common cancer among men and second most common cause of cancer-related deaths.

Prostate cancer is one of several cancers my dad had to deal with (although it’s not what killed him).  But you would never have known it.  In fact, Momma made everyone promise to pretend we didn’t know.  Daddy put on a brave face and kept to his regular routines, ever on the go.  I don’t know if he was embarrassed or just didn’t want us to worry.  So pretend, we did. 

However, it was difficult to fake nonchalance during the summer of 1998.  My daughter’s Little League Fastpitch Softball team had won the district tournament and then traveled to Gainesville for the Virginia State Tournament.   Daddy was undergoing radiation treatments at the time; nevertheless, he drove three hours to Gainesville and then back home almost every day just to watch her play.  I knew the trip was especially hard on him, but I couldn’t let on.

Fred Slade and John Bell Virginia State Little League Tournament
My dad (left) probably discussing strategy
with Coach John Bell.  No doubt Daddy once
again argued against the sac bunt.

Our team won the State Tournament qualifying them for the regional tournament.  They won that one too which meant a berth in the World Series at Louisville, Kentucky where any dreams of a national title were quickly dashed. 

But back home the friends and family of our Little League were still very proud of our first State win, quite an accomplishment for a league that was a mere three years old.  So how does a League reward its All Stars? 

Western Branch Little League
Virginia State and Region 4 Champions
1998


With a party and trophies.

The League bought BIG trophies for the girls to thank them for bringing home some recognition at last and giving the League some clout in the local district.  Not surprisingly, Daddy was there for the party to see that granddaughter get her trophy.















Maybe it is the awareness of one’s own mortality that makes a cancer victim determined to be a cancer survivor.   In my dad’s case, his presence at the tournament was really no different from his behavior in healthier days.  My parents were always their grandchildren’s biggest cheerleaders, never missing a game or performance if they could help it.  Still I wonder if that pesky cancer didn’t amplify the urgency to be there to see the winning pitcher in her glory.


Where trophies go to die -- a big bin in the garage

For more stories and photos of moustaches and trophies, please visit my friends at Sepia Saturday.



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Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Wordless Wednesday: Thanksgiving Note

Wordless Wednesday is a daily prompt at Geneabloggers that asks family historians to create a post in which the main focus is a photograph or image.




As usual, while looking for something else I found this note written by my daughter to her grandmother, my mother. ("Ming" was her "grandmother name.")

Blessings to you all on this Thanksgiving!




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