Sepia Saturday challenges
bloggers to share family history through old photographs.
This week’s Sepia Saturday photo prompt
features an elephant. At first I thought
I’d have to go off-theme, but then ta-da! I remembered seeing this picture:
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| Velma in India 1959 |
That is my great-aunt Velma Davis Woodring (wearing dark
socks) sitting in the middle of the howdah on the second elephant. She had traveled to India with fellow
teachers in 1959. As a teacher and
principal in the American military base school in Korea, she was allowed quite
a bit of free travel, and she took advantage of that privilege with trips
throughout Korea, Japan, Thailand, India, and maybe other places I don’t know
about.
As a child, I looked forward to Velma’s visits with her
stories of exotic places. The fact that
she always brought gifts was a bonus.
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| Velma's trunk now belongs to my younger daughter. |
Did
you know an elephant trunk can lift 660 pounds and carry as much as 1100
pounds? Velma could have used an
elephant to help carry all those souvenirs from her travels. However, she did have her limitations and so
selected a steamer trunk instead.
Velma brought us some beautiful art work. Some of it was on silk and some on
paper. She brought several gorgeous
screens that were decorated on both sides.
We have rice dishes, enamel dessert sets and Saki sets, decorative
plates and bowls.
When you hold the rice dish up to the light, you can see
right through it.
Velma brought us kimonos, dolls, brass hibachi, brassware, and jewelry.
A visit from Velma promised to be more fantastic than a subscription to National Geographic. She brought us the world.
Besides having such beautiful gifts to admire, my sister
and I for YEARS had unique Halloween costumes and something to wear for any
international theme day during Spirit Week at school; we had objects for
geography displays (ensuring good grades, don’tchaknow).
Never for a minute did we doubt we were the
luckiest people on earth.
So it came as bit of a shock upon dividing up my parents’
THINGS that my daughters and my sister’s sons announced they didn’t want “any
of that Asian crap.”
Asian Crap!?!?
How can they say that?
Who else has kimonos and dolls and artwork from the other side of the
world?
It’s taken awhile to get over their lack of
appreciation. But I’ve given it a lot of
thought and I’ve come to these conclusions:
1. Asian
is not their taste. Come to think of it,
it’s not particularly my taste either. These things are more than house décor – they’re memories. But they're not their memories.
2. They
didn’t know Velma. I myself was just a
teenager when she died.
To my sister’s and my children, Velma is merely a name in
the family tree, not a real person who showered her family with souvenirs of her adventures and rode an elephant.
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Mathias. All rights reserved.