is for Nancy. On the television sit-com “Everybody Loves Raymond,” Frank Barone calls Raymond “Nancy” when he thinks Raymond is being a sissy. My sister’s coworkers do not like the name “Nancy” because they view it as a slave name.
I didn’t know “Nancy” came with such negative connotations. It’s such a happy-sounding name.
Everyone knows at least one person named Nancy. The name enjoyed its peak of popularity from 1930-50 but has been on the decline since. Yet one in every 407 Americans is named Nancy.
I have 31 Nancy’s in my database, three of them in my direct line: a 3rd, 4th, and 6th great-grandmother.
James Jollett and Nancy Anne Walker (4G grandmother)
à Fielding Jollett and Mary Ann Armentrout
à James Franklin Jollett and Lucy Ann Shiflett
à Mary Frances Jollett and Walter Davis
à Orvin Owen Davis and Lucille Rucker
à Mary Eleanor Davis and Fred Robert Slade, Jr.
è ME
Burton Shiflett and Nancy Elizabeth Frazier (3G grandmother)
à Lucy Ann Shiflett and James Franklin Jollett
à Mary Frances Jollett and Walter Davis
à Orvin Owen Davis and Lucille Rucker
à Mary Eleanor Davis and Fred Robert Slade, Jr.
è ME
William White and Nancy Chapman (6G grandmother)
à Catherine Caty White and Richard Bruce
à Melinda Bruce and Joshua Shiflett
à Isaac Shiflett and Susan Jordan
à Segourney Shiflett and George Eppard
à Mary Sudie Eppard and Joseph Rucker
à Lucille Rucker and Orvin Owen Davis
à Mary Eleanor Davis and Fred Robert Slade, Jr.
è ME
But the Nancy nearest and dearest to my heart isn’t a family member at all. It’s Nancy Danielson Taylor, one of my mother’s best friends. They cheered together in high school.
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Nancy Danielson at Cradock High School
Portsmouth, Virginia
about 1945 |
And they were pals throughout their lives. We were neighbors, so my sister and I grew up playing with her kids.
Nancy’s family was famous for their most unusual Christmas tree. It was a cotton tree.
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The Taylors' Christmas tree
1973 |
They would go to the woods and cut a regular ol’ tree and remove all the leaves, then cover it with cotton. They used to top it with angel hair too until the year the tree caught fire.
Nancy was fun and funny. When she laughed, she snorted, which made everyone laugh all the more.

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Mathias. All rights reserved.